A Pair of Dads
Benny Lai
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Raising kids, strengthening relationships, and finding joy in the everyday—A Pair of Dads is where fathers come together to talk about it all. Hosted by Benny Lai, this podcast invites fellow dads and others to share their joy, insights, and experiences in parenting and life. Sometimes, we step back to observe the world around us, but at its core, this is a podcast about fatherhood, family, and the pursuit of a meaningful life.
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S1E54 International Women’s Day: Is it Still Relevant in Singapore?
We’re going there. The dads discuss whether gender-specific celebrations like International Women's Day still hold weight in a society that claims to be equal. From the lack of "International Men's…
S1E53 Survival of the Social: Why "People Skills" are the Ultimate AI-Proof Career
If AI can do the math, the marketing, and the code, what’s left for us? Christopher Magendran is an IT consultant that designs IT solutions for his clients. He reveals why your ability to network,…
S1E52 The "DINK" Lifestyle: Why "Selfishness" is the New Survival Strategy
"Dual Income, No Kids" isn't just a trend; it's a survival tactic. GenZs; Ian, Geber and Teris share why government grants aren't enough to solve a mindset shift where the younger generation feels…
S1E51 Raising the "Entitled" Child: How to Be an Authority Without Being a Tyrant
There is a fine line between a child-centered home and a child-run home. Dr. Kristen Cook, a pediatrician based in Chicago, Illinois shares the "Parenting Redefined" philosophy on how to provide…
S1E50 The Myth of the "Typical Singaporean"
Who gave that influencer the right to speak for you? Benny and Roel kick off the episode by calling out the "marketing gimmicks" of online personalities who claim to represent the entire nation,…
S1E49 (BCM) Pillars, Parents, and Pedagogy: Navigating Today’s Relationship Minefields
In this episode, the dads question the internet’s "dump him" culture as they discuss a viral Reddit post where a sexual quirk threatens an otherwise perfect partnership. Jermyn shares the raw "low…
S1E48 A World of Abundance: Utopia or a Nightmare?
Imagine a future where AI and robots do all the work, healthcare is free, and money is obsolete. While Benny sees a world of abundance where we are free to explore our passions, Roel fears a boring…
S1E47 100km Challenges & Inflamed Knees: Pushing Limits in Your 40s
After seeing a TikToker walk 100km in 24 hours, Benny and CK debate the line between being "inspiring" and just plain "demoralizing."From Benny’s grueling run with his students that left his knees…
S1E46 The Illusion of Control: Lessons from the Corporate World
Does believing you control every outcome lead to better performance or just more stress?Benny introduces a perspective that challenges the standard corporate narrative: you can’t control…
S1E45 Fatherhood and the "Safe" Bet: Parenting from a Distance
Even on a guys' trip in Vietnam, the "Dad Brain" never truly shuts off. Between navigating traffic and historical sites, the conversation inevitably turns back to the kids at home. The dads discuss…
S1E44 The Weight of Being There: Why Museums Matter
Is it better to read about history in a book or stand where it actually happened? Benny and Roel contrast their prior knowledge of the Vietnam War with the visceral experience of seeing it firsthand.…
S1E43 Lost in HCMC: Maps, Motorcycles, and Memories
Join Benny and Roel as they dodge construction smoke and motorcycles on a 27-minute trek to the War Remnants Museum. Between debating whether Google Maps actually knows where they are facing, the duo…
S1E42 From Yale PhD to Autism Advocate: Finding the Root Cause & Path to Independence | Dr. Theresa Lyons
We're thrilled to welcome our first guest from the US, Dr. Theresa Lyons, a computational chemist from Yale, for a game-changing discussion on autism.Dr. Lyons challenges the outdated narrative that…
S1E41 From K-Pop Stalkers to AI Spouses: The Rise of Parasocial Relationships
What happens when the line between fan and friend disappears? In this episode, Benny and his Gen Z guest, Ian, dive deep into the world of "parasocial relationships". From the extreme behavior of…
S1E40 Defying the Odds: A 36-Year-Old Grandmother's Unapologetic Life Story
In this special Christmas episode, join Benny as he sat down with the remarkable Shirli Ling, an entrepreneur, content creator, and actress who became a grandmother at the young age of 36. In this…
S1E39 Finding Emotional Foundations in a Mechanical Dating World
Ching and Rick, the passionate founders of Until 11:11, discuss why dating has become "very mechanical" and transactional.They open up about their mission: to host social mixing events for singles…
S1E38 (GTD Series) Fur Babies vs. Real Babies: Why Are We Judging the Next Generation?
In this second part of the 2-part GTD in Sentosa series, hosts Benny and Roel dive into the controversial trend of Gen Y and Gen Z choosing pets over children.They confront their own "cringy"…
S1E37 (GTD Series) Bare Ass and Big Tech: The Mortifying Truth of the 32km March
This episode has everything: old war history, the future of work, and a painful National Service story.While exploring Sentosa’s hidden trails, Benny recounts the most exposed moment of his life…
S1E36 Is Being Single the Ultimate 'Flex' for Gen Z?
In a world that tells you to find 'The One,' why are so many Gen Zs in Singapore choosing to go solo? Ian and Sarah share their perspectives on whether the traditional relationship model is broken.…
S1E35 Real Life Is a Distraction: The Young's Battle with Gaming's New Business Model
For some, games aren't a hobby—they're the priority. Join us as we dissect the exorbitant cost of modern gaming, from $100 titles to endless subscriptions.Benny explores the shift from "pay once" to…
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A Pair of Dads has published 54 episodes since January 2025, covering topics in Kids & Family, News.
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