Episodes 170
Avg. Duration 36m
Activity Moderate
Apple Rating 5.0 (10)
Since Sep 2020
Latest Episode May 2026

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Every 2 Weeks
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42%
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Becoming Me is your podcast companion and coach in your journey to a more integrated and authentic self. I explore the joys and challenges of the interior journey and share practical wisdom about growing in wholeness, healing from complex trauma, and navigating the existential crises of spiritual midlife deconstruction and renewal as an integrated Roman Catholic. Visit www.integroformation.com for more!

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S12E169 An Unexpected Break: Podcast and Personal Update

May 04, 2026 13m

Episode 169I've been quiet for the past month without an announced break. In this shorter episode I share with you the reason for my silence as well as an update about what's happening in the…

S12E168 Why Deconstruction is an Essential Part of Complex Trauma Recovery (with New Introduction)

Mar 23, 2026 51m

Episode 168In this re-sharing of a Season 10 episode, I explore why deconstruction is a necessary part of healing from complex trauma — especially for people of faith.I define deconstruction as…

S12E167 Deconstruction as Differentiation and Individuation

Mar 09, 2026 55m

Episode 167In this episode, I'm exploring deconstruction through the lens of differentiation and individuation—two psychological concepts that have profoundly shaped my faith journey.For years, I…

S12E166 Tasting the Fruit of Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents

Mar 04, 2026 9m Bonus

Episode 166In this bonus mini-episode,  I share what it's like to taste the fruit of a nine year long interior integration and healing process of my family of origin complex trauma. I describe in…

S12E165 Deconstructing: 'God' vs 'Christianity / Catholicism'

Feb 23, 2026 47m

Episode 165Have you ever wondered why some people deconstruct not only their religion but also their entire faith in God, while others deconstruct aspects of organised religion yet retain a…

S12E164 How Moral Injury Can Lead to Deconstruction

Feb 09, 2026 55m

Episode 164In this episode, I talk about how moral injury can be connected to or trigger deconstruction. This is a topic that has been deeply significant in my own journey of interior integration and…

S12E163 Why It's So Hard to Explain Deconstruction

Jan 26, 2026 1h 4m

Episode 163In this episode, I dive into one of the most challenging aspects of deconstruction: trying to explain it to others who haven't experienced it themselves.I respond to a thoughtful question…

S12E162 Deconstruction: A Trauma-Informed, Integrative and First-Hand Perspective

Jan 12, 2026 1h 4m

Episode 162Welcome to my first episode of 2026! After a six-week break, I'm returning with greater clarity and readiness to share about a topic I've been living through: deconstruction.In this…

S11E161 Grappling with Spiritual Abuse and Trauma in the “DNA” of the Catholic Church

Nov 17, 2025 57m

Episode 161What if the reason spiritual abuse is so rampant yet unrecognised in the Church is because these kind of dynamics have always been part of the way the Church existed in the world?In this…

S11E160 Reconsidering Holiness: Saints, Trauma, and Spiritual Abuse

Nov 03, 2025 47m

Episode 160We know we’re called to holiness, that we’re called to be saints. But have we really grappled with what holiness means? With what becoming saints really mean? In my latest podcast episode…

S11E159 When Enmeshment Trauma Becomes Spiritually Abusive

Oct 20, 2025 36m

Episode 159In today's episode, we explore the intersection of enmeshment trauma and spiritual abuse. If you're new to the concept, enmeshment trauma occurs in families that are too close to the point…

S11E158 Healing and Repenting from Abuse of Conscience

Oct 06, 2025 55m

Episode 158In this episode, I continue the discussion on spiritual abuse by focusing on Abuse of Conscience. I share my personal journey of discovering this subtle yet pervasive form of abuse, how it…

S11E157 Using Power and Influence in Non-Spiritually Abusive Ways

Sep 22, 2025 37m

Episode 157In this episode, I build on my last episode’s discussion of how culture, disembodied faith, and trauma contribute to an environment conducive to spiritual abuse. I delve into the…

S11E156 How Culture, Disembodied Faith and Trauma Facilitate Spiritual Abuse

Sep 08, 2025 56m

Episode 156In this episode, I delve into three factors that facilitate spiritual abuse, especially within the experience of many Catholics. Reflecting on a personal experience during a silent…

S11E155 Spiritual Abuse in Evangelisation and Discipleship (with Paul Fahey)

Aug 25, 2025 1h 36m

Episode 155In this episode, Paul Fahey joins me in a pivotal conversation about spiritual abuse within the context of evangelisation and church communities. We share our journey from years of…

S10E154 Season 10 Wrap-up: Insights & Updates

May 30, 2025 23m

Episode 154As I round off Season 10 of the Becoming Me podcast, here’s an overview of how my content has evolved together with the progression of my interior journey and some updates to address…

S10E153 Embraced by the Heart of God the Father (with Isaac Wicker)

May 19, 2025 1h 33m

Episode 153In this special episode about being securely loved by God the Father, I sit down with Isaac Wicker, a Catholic licensed therapist from Minnesota with a decade of mental health experience…

S10E152 How Pope Francis Kept My Heart Open to the Catholic Church (When I Was Deconstructing)

May 05, 2025 1h 21m

Episode 152  In this deeply personal episode, I explore the impact of Pope Francis' recent passing, especially how he became a bridge of trust during my period of intense interior deconstruction.…

S10E151 Navigating Holy Week Through Spiritual Trauma and Healing

Apr 16, 2025 37m

Episode 151 (Bonus)  In this special bonus episode for Holy Week, I share a deeply personal and vulnerable story about my journey through spiritual trauma and healing. Last year, I wrote an open…

S10E150 Reclaiming Our Dignity: Healing from Spiritual Abuse (with Paul Fahey)

Apr 12, 2025 1h 45m

Episode 150  In this heartfelt conversation, I sit down with Paul Fahey, a limited licensed professional counselor, retreat leader, and catechist from Michigan, USA. Paul shares insights from his…

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