Better Gay Dating
Ed Bell
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16 | Green flags in gay dating
We often talk about spotting red flags in gay dating, but what about the green ones? In this episode I do a deep dive on the fundamental green flags that show someone is ready for a stable, loving…
15 | How shame f**ks up gay relationships
Shame isn't always fun to talk about, but it's a powerful and often unrecognized force that impacts why dating in our community is like it is. So in this episode, we'll look at the subtle ways shame…
14 | Why gay men ghost — and how we break the cycle
Ghosting kind of sucks. But statistically, most of us have been ghosted *and* we've ghosted someone else. So what can we do to break this cycle and create a culture of clearer and kinder…
13 | Yes, I'm single. I'm happy to talk about it.
So yeah, I get asked about my personal life from time to time. In this episode, I wanted to talk a bit about what my life looks like right now, but also about how we often think about singlehood —…
12 | Why gay men choose unsuitable partners
Most of us have been there — we stuck it out with someone who definitely wasn't right for us. But why do we choose partners who aren't right for us? And how do we choose better? Support the show…
11 | How gay relationship coaching works
In this episode I peel back the curtain on how gay relationship coaching works, what we actually do in the sessions, and how it'll transform the way you think about making connections in this…
10 | Scientists found the secret to a happy life — here's what it means for gay men
For more than 80 years, researchers at Harvard have studied what makes us truly happy. Here's what they found — and what it means for us as queer men. Find out more about "The Good Life":…
9 | Gays, here's how to make great new connections offline
If you're kind of over the apps right now... you're not alone. Here's your in-depth guide to making great new connections in person — where to do it, how to do it, and why it often leads to deeper…
8 | Seven myths about gay dating that keep us stuck
Sometimes gay men believe all kinds of crazy sh*t about our relationships — and ourselves 🤷♀️ Let's unpack what's going on here and how we can think about things differently. Support the show and…
7 | How I became a dating and relationship coach 🌈
In this episode, I wanted to talk about my background as a musician, how I became a coach, and what it all means for me today. Oh, and about the time I played the piano for Ian McKellen. It's a…
6 | Let's talk about sex, baby: How great sex and deeper connection can co-exist
As gay men, it can feel like sex is the thing we're always supposed to prioritize, even at the expense of our emotional or other needs. But what if there are ways to balance all of our needs in ways…
5 | Why gay men push love away
Lots of gay men deeply want love and connection. But after years of armoring up, it can be really difficult to let that love in. Let's talk about what's going on here — and what we can do about it.…
4 | Chemistry, compatibility and capacity
One of the most important skills in dating is discernment — recognizing how is and isn't a good match for you. In this episode, I break down the three essential things to consider when you're trying…
3 | Why we're so over the apps — and what you can do about it
If you're like most gay men, you might have a love-hate relationship with the apps. Or maybe they just aren't for you. In this episode, we take an unfiltered look at why that is — and exactly what…
2 | How to date more intentionally — and why it's game-changing
In a world of too many options, it can be hard to connect with what you truly want in your close relationships. In this week's episode, we explore how to bring more purpose and intention to your…
1 | Why gay dating is so hard
Why *is* dating so hard for gay and bi men? Well, there are a handful of reasons... but most of them come down to these three fundamentals. For coaching, group programs and more:…
Welcome to the Better Gay Dating Podcast 🌈
Hey, I'm Ed 👋 I'm a dating and relationship coach for gay and bi men, and talking about how we can find more love and connection in our community is my jam. If you're new to what I do, this quick…
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