Date, Affirm, The Real

Date, Affirm, The Real

Marcus Goodwin & Keya McClain

Episodes 122
Avg. Duration 1h 3m
Activity Dormant
Apple Rating 5.0 (3)
Since Jan 2023
Latest Episode Oct 2025

Outreach Signals

Features Guests

Publishing Details

Schedule
Every Few Days
Format
Episodic
Hosting
anchor.fm

Contact & Outreach

About This Podcast

Date, Affirm, The Real (DAR) is a group created to discuss healthy relationship with self, in dating relationship and marriage. The group focuses heavily on black healthy relationships. Our focus is on healthy, healing, positive and affirming love. The discussions range from topics related to all things self-love and healthy relationships.

Explore Statistics

Recent Episodes

S3E32 Unlearning Survival Mode in Relationships

Oct 18, 2025 1h 6m

In this episode, Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist unpack what it really means to unlearn survival mode in love. So many of us learned to protect, perform, or please as a way to…

S3E31 Dating and a Financial Deficit: When the Heart’s Ready but the Wallet Ain’t

Oct 08, 2025 52m

Love sounds good until real life hits the budget. 💔💸In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus and Don ask the questions most people avoid — should you even be dating if your finances aren’t…

S3E30 Men vs. Women? Or Us vs. the Problem?

Oct 06, 2025 1h 5m

Are men and women really the problem—or are we just fighting the wrong fight?In this episode of Date, Affirm, The Real, hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) sit down to unpack the tension between…

S3E29 We Just Can’t Recover

Oct 06, 2025 1h 2m

We Can’t Just Recover | Date, Affirm, The Real PodcastAfter the end of a true love, “recovery” isn’t always possible — the loss stays with you. In this episode, hosts Keya and Shimeka break down the…

S3E28 Less Between the Sheets: Is Having Less Sex Hurting Us—or Helping Us?

Oct 06, 2025 1h 14m

Are we in a “sex recession”? 📉 According to new research, Americans are having less sex now than in the 90s—with young adults leading the trend. But is that really a bad thing? On this episode of…

S3E27 When a Woman Has Lust for You

Oct 05, 2025 1h 1m

What happens when lust enters the picture? In this episode of Date, Affirm the Real, we dive into the difference between love and lust, what it feels like when a woman has lust for you, and how it…

S3E26 Black men and Vulnerability: Can we be soft in Love?

Aug 27, 2025 1h 3m

Hosts Marcus Goodwin and Don (Jr. Lily) get real about ego, upbringing, and the struggle to show love without fear. Is vulnerability strength—or weakness—for Black men?

S3E25 Why the 80/20 Rule Could Be Holding You Back

Aug 27, 2025 1h 6m

We’ve all heard the 80/20 rule — focus on the 20% that gives 80% of the results. But what if that “rule” is actually holding you back? ⚖️In this episode, hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the…

S3E22 If you ain't cheating, You ain't trying

Aug 27, 2025 1h

Is cheating really wrong—or just misunderstood? On this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus and Don take a bold look at infidelity from the cheater’s perspective. With the phrase “If you ain’t…

S3E23 Not Just a Woman Thing: Menopause, Relationships, & Real Impact

Aug 07, 2025 1h 11m

In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, hosts Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist sit down with special guest Shulanda Nance-Barnett, certified menopause coach, to talk facts,…

S3E22 From Coldplay to Chaos: When Infidelity Goes Viral

Aug 07, 2025 1h 2m

Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist dive into the explosive viral clip of the couple caught cheating at the Coldplay concert. But this isn’t just gossip—it’s a real conversation. They…

S3E21 Love Off Script: Unlearning Society’s Rules to Write Your Own Relationship Story

Aug 07, 2025 1h 8m

What if everything you’ve been taught about love... is wrong? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist challenge the traditional rules society…

S3E20 Can Red Flags Turn into Green Flags?

Aug 07, 2025 1h

Can Red Flags Turn into Green Flags? On this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus and Don are keeping it all the way real. We’ve all seen the red flags—but do they always mean run? Or is there…

S3E19 Are They Ready for the Cookout? How family affects datin

Aug 07, 2025 1h 11m

In this episode of *Date, Affirm, the Real*, Marcus and Don dive into a question many avoid: "Are They Ready for the Cookout?" Your family can be a window into your future—and their reaction to your…

S3E18 Do you even like them…or do you just hate being alone?

Aug 07, 2025 1h 5m

Are you really into them—or just afraid of being alone? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, hosts Keya and Shimeka unpack the uncomfortable truth behind settling in relationships. Are you…

S3E17 Do you choose a partner like Multiple choice or fill in the Blank___?

Jun 11, 2025 1h 1m

Ever feel like dating today is just a big multiple choice test — pick from what's left and hope it's right? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Keya and Shimeka explore how we choose our…

S3E16 The Prize and the Pursuer: Analyzing Current Dating Dynamics.

Jun 06, 2025 1h 9m

In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real Podcast, hosts Marcus and Don dive deep into the heart of modern dating with "The Prize and the Pursuer: Analyzing Current Dating Dynamics."Is it okay for…

S3E15 Sleeping With Grudges: How Unhealed Hurts Prevent Healthy Love

Jun 03, 2025 1h 9m

Can love truly thrive when pain from the past still lingers? In this eye-opening episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Keya McClain the Poet and Shimeka the DAR Therapist dive deep into the emotional…

S3E14 What the Hell is Black Love

May 22, 2025 1h 5m

What the hell is Black Love, really? In this episode of Date, Affirm, the Real, Marcus and Don sit down to unpack what Black Love means to them — the beauty, the struggle, the stereotypes, and the…

S3E13 No Spark, But Plenty of Matches

May 16, 2025 1h 2m

Dating with an open mind and intent means being honest and wanting the best for you and those you encounter. You may find them attractive and really nice, however they are not for you and you have…

Frequently Asked Questions

How many episodes does Date, Affirm, The Real have?

Date, Affirm, The Real has published 122 episodes since January 2023, covering topics in Relationships, Society & Culture.

Is Date, Affirm, The Real still active?

Date, Affirm, The Real is currently dormant with new episodes every few days. Average episode length is 1h 3m.

How do I contact Date, Affirm, The Real for sponsorship or guest appearances?

Sign up on Grep.FM to access contact details for Date, Affirm, The Real, including email and social media links.

Similar Podcasts