How To Destroy Everything

How To Destroy Everything

HTDE | Daylight Media

Episodes 43
Avg. Duration 58m
Activity Dormant
Since May 2023
Latest Episode Jul 2025

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About This Podcast

This is the true story of Richard Jacobs – a narcissist who destroyed a childhood, a marriage, a family, and a community. He sued every sentient being on the face of the earth, got banned from restaurants, and inspired a support group composed solely of people he traumatized. He stole notary stamps, hacked emails, forged signatures… and won a U.S. Supreme Court case. He was also my dad. Join us each week as hosts Danny Jacobs and Darren Grodsky will shift between past and present to explore the lasting impact of Richard Jacobs. Subscribe to How to Destroy Everything on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen to your podcasts.

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Recent Episodes

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - The Interview with Lisa and Sheila (Bonus Episode)

Jul 08, 2025 1h 24m

In this special bonus episode, we hear Toughen Up from the shared perspective of Stephen’s sisters, Lisa and Sheila. Hear how they navigated a childhood of fear, loss and abandonment, and more…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 10: Assisted So-Called Living, Something's Gotta Get Ya and The Punchline

Jun 24, 2025 52m

In the season finale, unable to carry on alone, Eugene finally surrenders and moves into an Assisted Living facility. He’s not there long before he is hospitalized and enters into a steep decline.…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 9: Crushing Blossoms and The Burden

Jun 17, 2025 49m

It’s 15 years later and Eugene’s wife Helen dies very suddenly, leaving him very much adrift. At the urging of a priest, Stephen’s father learns to ask for help at the gravesite, then pushes on…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 8: Albertsons, Aspirin and Telling the Truth

Jun 10, 2025 53m

With Stephen off to college, his mother strikes out on her own, renting a room in a house and scoring her dream job. Not long after, however, Maureen is diagnosed with terminal cancer and eventually…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 7: Driving School, Dad's Big Surprise and Blowing the Hatch

Jun 03, 2025 1h 13m

In this seventh chapter, we find a mid-life Maureen facing her fears and calling upon her brother, Jimmy, to finally teach her how to drive. Then, Eugene shocks the family with a surprise marriage…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 6: Mom Hustle and The Girl Upstairs

May 27, 2025 1h

In this chapter of our story, we find Maureen is officially back on her feet, though struggling to make ends meet for her and the kids. After a variety of jobs, she ends up working in a factory and…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 5: Homeless and The Edges of Town

May 20, 2025 1h 3m

We now find Lisa, Sheila and Stephen taking refuge with their Uncle John in Washington State, where young Stephen learns some hard life lessons on a construction site. They return to Mission Viejo,…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 4: The Road to 333

May 13, 2025 48m

After losing their suburban home, Maureen moves with Stephen and Sheila into a Travelodge, only to dispatch her children on an epic road trip with their fugitive sister Lisa. Heading north, the three…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 3: Wes, Skatebarn, The Big Split and Frank

May 06, 2025 1h 9m

Wherein young Stephen seeks refuge from his own family at a house “down the street.” His father then reveals a side of himself that no one could have imagined, just before the marriage finally falls…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 2: Buses, Nuns, Christmas, Knives and a No-Name Sister

Apr 29, 2025 1h 3m

Episode Two finds Maureen taking on The Reverend Mother of her children’s Catholic School. The family then experiences the darkest Christmas of their lives, propelling them south, to face an…

How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up - Episode 1: Mom, Dad and the Fighting

Apr 22, 2025 1h 4m

In our first episode, we meet Stephen’s tough girl Jersey mother and his post war(s) farm boy father, as they attempt to raise him, his two sisters, and themselves in a tiny apartment in Van Nuys,…

Interregnum: How to Destroy a Live Show

Apr 15, 2025 1h 11m

Wherein Danny and Darren confront their audience live for the very first time. Danny discusses his complicated feelings about St. Louis, and surprise guests abound. Recorded at famed St. Louis merch…

Trailer: How To Destroy Everything Presents: Toughen Up

Apr 01, 2025 2m Trailer

In the spirit of familial destruction, How To Destroy Everything is proud to present, Toughen Up, written and performed by Stephen Kearin. Toughen Up is the story of an American family turned upside…

Episode 16: How to Create Something New

Mar 25, 2025 1h 12m

Wherein Danny returns, at last, to the scene of the crime(s). Danny (alongside Darren and Sandy) go back to his childhood home, The Royal Manor, and Danny confronts his past head-on. In this, the…

Interregnum: How to Destroy the Calm Before the Storm

Mar 18, 2025 1h

Wherein Danny and Darren check in one last time with Sandy and talk about the entirety of her podcast journey. In doing so, they discover the incredible strides that Sandy has made in her own…

Episode 15: How to Destroy Richard Jacobs

Mar 11, 2025 54m

Wherein Danny and Darren finally track down their white whale: a member of the support group founded to bring together people who had been sued and harrassed by Richard Jacobs. But as Danny and…

Interregnum: How to Destroy Death

Mar 04, 2025 49m

Wherein Danny and Darren watch the "death video" Richard made for Danny back in the 1980s. Also, the boys discuss Richard's view of death and his conception of the "afterlife" with Danny's brother.…

Episode 14: How to Destroy a Brotherhood Part 2

Feb 25, 2025 1h 12m

Wherein Danny and Darren sit down once more with Danny's brother and delve deeper into understanding each other's perspectives. Danny's brother brings a unique point of view - one of understanding…

Episode 13: How to Destroy a Brotherhood

Feb 18, 2025 59m

Wherein Danny and Darren sit down with Danny's brother and discuss how they survived their childhood as the sons of Richard Jacobs, how their perspectives differ, and whether or not Richard can be…

Interregnum: How to Destroy a Dating Profile

Feb 11, 2025 51m

Wherein Danny and Darren dive deeper into Beth's relationship with Richard, which includes a shocking revelation that Danny's dad had been operating dating profiles on his sons' behalf. Additionally,…

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