Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

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Episodes 161
Avg. Duration 1h 3m
Activity Sporadic
Apple Rating 4.4 (13)
Since Feb 2022
Latest Episode Jan 2026

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Weekly
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Episodic
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59%
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About This Podcast

Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you. Join the BiFFs — Stefani & Ray — as they dig into advice columns and dish out their own insights with humor, heart, and a whole lot of therapy under their belts. Come for the laugh. Stay for the advice. Therapy-adjacent, wine-fueled, and probably ill advised.

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Recent Episodes

159 | Best of the Biffs (Part VIII)

Jan 21, 2026 54m

This week, the Biffs serve up a best-of compilation of some of our most unhinged, emotionally loaded, and “oh wow we really said that” advice moments. From Ask Natalie dilemmas about a partner…

158 | Leave. Him.

Jan 14, 2026 1h 6m

Is he private… or are you a secret? This week, the Biffs crack open Ask Natalie and dive into three modern relationship nightmares: a boyfriend who won’t acknowledge your existence, Venmo emoji…

157 | Mathing With Meth

Jan 07, 2026 57m

This week, the Biffs dive into Coleen Nolan’s Mirror column and immediately ask: should we be allowed to know this much about strangers? We’ve got forbidden fantasies about a fiancé’s sister…

156 | Zoop it to Her

Dec 31, 2025 50m

This week, the Biffs drop into Reddit’s Am I the Asshole?, where feelings are inconvenient and accountability is theoretical. A man asks his wife to stop crying in a Home Depot like it’s a customer…

155 | High Tide... & You're Raggin'

Dec 17, 2025 1h 9m

This week, the Biffs crack open The Washington Post’s Carolyn Hax column and immediately regret having functional nervous systems. We tackle a family who keeps serving seafood despite a…

154 | LOL. Brenda?

Dec 10, 2025 48m

This week, the Biffs dive into Lizzy Acker’s Why Tho? column, where the drama is feral, the boundaries are theoretical, and everyone’s courage seems to come from a mysterious off-brand energy drink.…

153 | Wowed, Oohed, and Aahed

Nov 26, 2025 44m

This week, the Biffs tackle Thanksgiving chaos courtesy of Dear Prudence and Dear Abby: one man is appalled his wife wants to help the less fortunate on a holiday (unthinkable), and one older sister…

152 | Flop Out & Flop Over

Nov 19, 2025 50m

This week, the Biffs dive into Slate’s How To Do It, where the sex is messy, the signals are mixed, and every letter reads like it was written mid–panic spiral. We tackle: a husband rattled by a…

151 | Camel Noise

Nov 12, 2025 57m

From body odor to boundary issues, this week’s reading of the Dear Annie column is giving eau de despair. One writer’s begging HR to handle a fetid coworker, another’s stuck between her…

150 | Hide Your Rakes and Your Wives

Oct 15, 2025 46m

This week, the Biffs celebrate 150 episodes by heading to Reddit’s messy courthouse - Am I The Asshole? - to judge three cases that range from petty to downright sociopathic. We’ve got a neighborly…

149 | There, There. Hear, Hear. Now, Now.

Oct 08, 2025 44m

A fiancé in love with his AI “girlfriend.” A food influencer who turns a first date into content. A boyfriend who live-streams arguments for likes. This week, the Biffs dig into three Ask Natalie…

148 | We Didn't Shave for This

Oct 01, 2025 58m

This week, Stefani and Ray put the advice column down and turn the spotlight on themselves—answering the kind of unhinged, cockamamie questions only ChatGPT could dream up. From ghosting for the…

147 | RIP Your Culo

Sep 24, 2025 1h 5m

Lies, loathing, and a whole lot of family baggage—it’s a triple feature in this week’s episode when the Biffs read from the Independent's Dear Vix column. First, a compulsive storyteller whose “white…

146 | Pee on Her Begonias

Sep 10, 2025 1h 9m

A nosy neighbor, a leaked sex tape, and a family secret one spit tube away from detonating—welcome back to Prudie’s wild ride [Dear Prudence, Slate.com. This week, the Biffs tackle three disasters in…

145 | Skibidi-Eight

Sep 03, 2025 1h 10m

This week, Colleen Nolan’s (Mirror.co.uk) inbox is a circus and we’ve got front-row seats. A man secretly pays off his wife’s ex-husband like it’s hush money for his own conscience. A woman brags…

144 | Side Bitch to a Baby Mama

Aug 27, 2025 1h 3m

Out of the Vault: One bride’s recycling her heartbreak couture, another diner’s beefing with the blue-plate special crowd, and someone’s about to ghost a group chat with more drama than a telenovela.…

143 | Extra-Relative Relations

Aug 20, 2025 1h 3m

Out of the Vault: A wife’s uncomfortably close bond with her stepdad has her husband spiraling; a boyfriend thinks a lie detector is the secret to lasting love (and they say romance is dead); and a…

142 | 'Gross' With a Lisp

Aug 13, 2025 1h 19m

Out of the Vault: The summer vacation continues with another unreleased recording. A hidden video. A bizarre bedroom ultimatum. And the Sunshine State taking its “Florida Man” energy straight to the…

141 | Toddlers & Drunkards

Aug 06, 2025 57m

Out of the Vault: Previously recorded and unaired, this week the Biffs read from Ask Natalie. He’s married. You’re pregnant. And he thinks the solution is as easy as hitting delete. Then, your…

140 | Am I Not Ketchup, Enough?

Jul 30, 2025 57m

A mistress meet-cute at the nail salon. A stolen baby name (the audacity!). And a Golden Corral showdown that wasn’t even their first. This week, the Biffs tackle three delightfully deranged dilemmas…

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Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray has published 161 episodes since February 2022, covering topics in Comedy, Leisure.

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