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Marriage can be really tough, especially when it feels like you are struggling alone.
Welcome to the Marriage Unmasked Podcast where certified marriage and life coaches, Adam and Cara Nitz, share real, raw, honest conversation about topics you are dealing with in your marriage.
We want to help you take your marriage from painful to peaceful, get deeply connected to your spouse and live fully loved by God and each other.
Find your next step with our online marriage course, support groups, coaching and so many other helpful marriage resources at our website: https://www.thewayforlove.com/
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S2E9 The #1 Responsibility of a Wife in Marriage
Believe it or not, a wife’s superpower isn’t in serving well, exercising control, productivity, or even communication skills. In this episode, we explore the incredible power and influence of a wife…
S2E8 6 Reasons Husbands Stop Showing Love to Their Wives
A man doesn’t usually just stop loving his wife. More often, something inside him slowly shuts down. When a man feels like his efforts don’t matter, like respect is tied to performance, or when he…
S2E7 What To Do When They Keep Hurting You
Your spouse keeps saying, "I'm sorry." But then they hurt you the same way again. Trust is ruined, over and over. At some point this has to stop. But how?It's incredibly painful when this cycle keeps…
S2E6 Commitment in Your Marriage is Making You Miserable
When commitment starts to feel like misery, something deeper is usually going on. In this episode, we talk about a kind of marriage commitment many Christians carry: staying faithful, showing up…
S2E5 6 Reasons Wives Lose Respect for Their Husbands
When a wife's respect for her husband disappears, both people are hurting.In this episode, we’re naming 6 Reasons behind her loss of respect. This is not a blame-filled conversation. It’s an honest,…
S2E4 When a Good Woman Is Tearing Down Her Husband
She's not trying to tear him down.She’s trying to survive her own pain.And he’s not shutting down because he doesn’t care,he’s shutting down because her criticism is hitting a wound he needs to…
S2E3 11 Things Healthy Married Couples Do
Healthy marriages don't just happen. It isn't about personality, or “finding the right person.”They’re built through small, repeatable choices that create safety, closeness, and momentum over time.In…
S2E2 When Trust is Broken
What happens when trust is broken in a marriage and nothing feels the same anymore?You’re still married. You still live under the same roof. But something essential has fractured. Whether its…
Best of Marriage Unmasked: How to Rebuild Attraction in a Marriage that Hurts
This episode continues to be our most listened-to conversation, so we're bringing it back for those who missed it, and those who need a refresh. What do you do when you're not attracted to your…
S2E1 Pursuing Pleasure Can Change Everything in Marriage
Marriage isn't just to "make you holy." It's also designed for pleasure. Too often, marriage becomes about responsibilities, routines, and keeping peace rather than cultivating joy. We learn to…
S1E54 When You Don't Want to Touch Each Other
What happens when physical closeness no longer feels natural or even welcome? When hugs feel forced. Kisses fade. And the space between you grows quieter and heavier than either of you ever…
S1E53 How to Overcome a Victim Mindset in Marriage
"I'm blamed for everything." "Nothing I ever do is good enough." "I'm the only one trying." When marriage gets painful it feels like survival mode and the thoughts and stories we repeat in our heads…
S1E52 What's Normal and What's a Red Flag in Marriage?
Every marriage has tension. Every couple has conflict. But many couples wonder is this "normal" or a "red flag?"In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we talk honestly about the difference between…
S1E51 5 Things Women Need from Their Husbands
Many wives carry a quiet ache in their marriage over needs that go unmet and hopes that go unrealized. And many husbands want to love their wives well and meet those needs, but feel confused,…
S1E50 5 Things Men Need From Their Wives
Many husbands walk through marriage carrying unspoken needs, and too often, their wives are left confused, wondering why he pulls back, shuts down, or says he's “fine” while something deeper is going…
S1E49 Do Opposites Really Attract?
Why do our differences feel magnetic in dating, but maddening in marriage?Have you ever had thoughts like, "Why are we so different? This shouldn't be this hard." "I feel unseen, misunderstood, and…
S1E48 The Top 5 Ways to Validate Your Spouse and Create Safety in Your Marriage
Have you ever had a simple conversation suddenly turn into defensiveness, shutting down, walking away, or a full-blown argument?Maybe you've been feeling unheard or unseen for a long time or maybe…
S1E47 Setting Boundaries with In-laws Without Causing More Conflict
You love your family. You want peace, but every time your in-laws overstep, you feel that knot in your stomach tighten.You start wondering, "How do I honor parents without betraying my spouse? How do…
S1E46 We Waited for Marriage, Why is Sex Still So Hard?
You did the “right” thing. You waited. You honored God, you went into marriage believing that obedience would lead to awesome intimacy. But now, after months or years, you’re realizing that sex can…
S1E45 The Top 7 Things That Cause Disconnection in Your Marriage
Have you ever looked at your spouse and thought, “How did we get here?” You’re in the same house, but it feels like you’re miles apart. You reconnect for a moment only to have it fall apart all over…
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Marriage Unmasked has published 65 episodes since January 2025, covering topics in Relationships, Society & Culture.
Marriage Unmasked is currently highly active with new episodes weekly. Average episode length is 25m.
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