Now That You See It
Pancho Gomez & Kim Paull
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Kim Paull and Pancho Gomez are two curious, opinionated friends who love nothing more than to change their own minds. Now That You See It is a podcast about the moments when a belief shifts — and what's possible once it does.
Each episode, they dig into the ideas, biases, and assumptions that quietly run our lives — the ones so familiar we've stopped questioning them. Sometimes a guest joins. Sometimes it's just the two of them, thinking out loud together toward something neither of them expected.
They cover the hidden operating system behind everyday stuff: why we judge others faster than ourselves, how our personalities might be inherited survival strategies, what actually makes change stick, why friendships get harder when we're grown.
Conversations go long because that's when the big aha moments hit.
If you've ever caught yourself wondering if anyone else saw that glitch in the matrix, you're in the right place.
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Adulting 103: Is it Anxiety or Your Personality?
What if some of what you've always called your personality is actually anxiety in disguise?That's the thread Kim and Pancho pull on in this episode. It's genuinely hard to untangle the overlap…
Coming Out Was Never Just About Being Gay
What happens when the version of you that has been working for so long no longer fits?This episode explores the slow process Kim took to understand herself and the resulting coming out to her friends…
What Am I Suffering From? with Chris Burkard, Storyteller and Photographer
Chris has spent much of his life looking ahead.Ahead to the next race. The next film. The next goal.In this conversation, he reflects on what’s led him to slow his forward momentum.We talk about…
Our Biggest Decisions Make Themselves
What happens when a decision stops feeling like a decision?In this episode, we explore the moment when the status quo becomes intolerable. The moment when overthinking fades, not because life is…
The Moms Who Are Rewriting The Rules with Julie Bacon of the Mothership Collective
Motherhood does not arrive quietly. It changes your body, your brain, your calendar, and your identity. And then the world starts treating you differently before you’ve even figured out who you are…
Why 'I Deserve' Gives You the Ick
"I deserve this."If you immediately get the ick, you're not alone. But why? Shouldn't it sound empowering?In this conversation, we unpack one of the most loaded phrases in modern self-help culture.…
"Why Was I Ever Scared to Talk to This Guy?" with Pancho's Wife, Steph
The way we see ourselves can differ widly from the way others see us. We might see ourselves as competent, self-aware, and reasonable. And maybe we are. But our friends, family, significant others,…
How to Stop the Boom-Bust Change Cycle with Paradie Stewart
Change rarely announces itself with fireworks. More often, it is a boring process. It's quiet. Almost like nothing is happening.In this conversation with Paradie Stewart, we talk about why real…
Making Peace With An Unfair World with Kisch Lenus
We grow up with the narrative that if we follow the rules, we'll be rewarded. Go to school, work hard, check all the boxes, and things will turn out like they should. Then we're faced with the…
Adulting 102: In Defense of Being a Little Childish
What if some of the behaviors we’re most eager to outgrow are actually the ones we need back?In this episode, Pancho and Kim explore what we label as “childish” and why curiosity, play, emotional…
Resolutions Reconsidered - What the Yogis Got Right
Every January, we feel the cultural pressure to improve (or at least act like we will).We make promises. We set goals. We tell ourselves this year will be different. Our desires and aspirations are…
When They're a Jerk but You're Obviously Not - Brain Bugs & Being Human
We’re quick to explain our own behavior with context and just as quick to explain other people’s behavior with character.In this episode, Pancho and Kim dig into a cognitive bias most of us are…
Adulting 101: How To Make Friends As A Grownup
Adult friendships are harder than we expect, and no one really teaches us how to do them.In this episode, Pancho and Kim talk candidly about what it takes to build, maintain, and sometimes grieve…
Generations Ago, Your Personality Formed: Judy Hu on Epigenetics and Inherited Pain
What if the things you call your personality are actually unfinished survival strategies?In this episode, we sit down with Judy Hu, a licensed mental health counselor and boundary coach, to discuss…
Breaking Open - Dan Walker on Embracing Complexity
In this episode, Kim and Pancho sit down with Dan Walker to talk about justice, conflict, and what it actually takes to stay human inside complexity. They discuss the lived, evolving version of…
Just Make a Mark - Kiara Boston on Creativity
Most people think creativity is a talent you either have or you don’t. Kaira Boston disagrees.In this episode, Kim and Pancho sit down with Kaira to talk about creativity as a life force - a way we…
Part 2: How To Kill Small Talk and Become Someone Worth Talking To
If you’ve ever wondered why your conversations feel flat, it probably starts with the questions you ask.In this episode, Kim and Pancho dig into why advice is so fragile and why the real superpower,…
Part 1: How To Kill Small Talk and Become Someone Worth Talking To
If you’ve ever wondered why your conversations feel flat, it probably starts with the questions you ask.In this episode, Kim and Pancho dig into why advice is so fragile and why the real superpower,…
The Arrival Fallacy - "When I Get There I Can Finally Rest"
We love telling ourselves that once we finally reach our goal, things will settle. More peace, more joy, more sleep. The arrival fallacy sells that fantasy hard, and we keep buying it, even though…
In Love, Married, and Wouldn't Recommend It With Jordan Devine
In this episode, fellow coach Jordan Devine joins Kim and Pancho to explore the balance between relationships and individuality. Drawing from their own lives and viral moments, they discuss the…
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Now That You See It has published 25 episodes since November 2025, covering topics in Business, Education.
Now That You See It is currently highly active with new episodes weekly. Average episode length is 1h 10m.
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