picky & selfish

picky & selfish

Sean Kilby

Episodes 40
Avg. Duration 1h 3m
Activity Highly Active
Apple Rating 5.0 (55)
Since Mar 2025
Latest Episode Apr 2026

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Every 2 Weeks
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Episodic
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43%
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About This Podcast

Introducing picky and selfish with talia and sean – A show about... nothing? (Is that taken yet?) Talia is your favorite twenty-something influencer navigating the chaotic New York social scene, and Sean is a thirty-something podcaster finally diving into the New York dating pool for the first time. These two they need each other's help. Fortunately, they’re best friends. Forget "mindful" and "demure" – it’s time to get picky and selfish. This is the podcast for women who are unapologetically putting themselves first... and for the men who want to know exactly what that looks like. Each week, Talia and Sean dive into everything from bad hookups and f*ckboy tendencies, to annoying texting habits and why Crumbl cookies are overhyped. No boring segments, no filler – just the good stuff, every minute. Expect unfiltered conversations with their influencer squad, a parade of fascinating guests, and plenty of wild opinions. picky and selfish isn’t just a vibe – it’s a way of life. Be picky. Be selfish.

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Recent Episodes

it’s raining cats and threesomes.

Apr 10, 2026 55m

Talia is back from vacation and Sean is having a horny spring. We talk about our recent trip to Broadway and whether or not unpopular opinions make you interesting (they do). In this ep we discuss: …

three is better than two.

Mar 13, 2026 1h 16m

Sean has a juicy story to tell this week (about his first threesome) and Talia can’t wait to ask for all the details. Plus, we debate the controversy surrounding Timothée Chalamet after he said “no…

the world is ending. holy sh*t I have déjà vu.

Mar 06, 2026 58m

All the signs of the apocalypse are upon us, including Talia tracking sh*t into Sean’s apartment today. Plus, she tells a harrowing tale of sh*tting on the street that you won’t believe. In this ep…

wouldn’t-stock is fake and ghosts are real.

Feb 27, 2026 57m

Talia walked under a ladder today and Sean tries to find out if she’s actually superstitious. This leads to a debate about whether or not ghosts are real and if the Long Island Medium is a fraud. In…

everybody loves boobs.

Feb 20, 2026 56m

Talia is back from vacation and tells Sean what it's like to go through life with amazing tits. In this ep we discuss: Growing up and adjusting to changes in how you lookComing to terms with your…

tin foil hats and heated rivalries

Feb 06, 2026 52m

Talia and Sean are fed up with the state of the world, and it all starts with Euphoria and Heated Rivalry. Why does everything feel so bleak? We debate the feminism of Barbie, the female gaze on TV,…

talia purges her apartment. sean finds culture.

Jan 24, 2026 52m

Talia’s frontal lobe suddenly developed this week and she tells us all about how she purged her apartment to refurnish like an actual grown up lives there. Plus, Sean is headed to Sundance. In this…

2016 is back. 2026 needs help.

Jan 16, 2026 57m

The 2016 trend is everywhere this week, so Talia and Sean look back on the last year when the world made sense. They tell us why the trend is so easy to pull off (thanks camera roll) and recount…

stranger things finale recap

Jan 02, 2026 1h 8m

The Stranger Things final season has come to an end, and Sean & Talia saw it together in a theater so they’re recapping everything that did (and didn’t) happen. In this ep we discuss: The…

why is your boyfriend liking my stories? ft. alexis barber (part 2 of 2)

Dec 20, 2025 1h 2m

Our friend and former collaborator Alexis Barber (Too Smart For This) returns once again to share some dating stories, including the recent return of someone from her past. Plus, Talia and Alexis…

we can’t believe you broke up… ft. alexis barber (part 1 of 2)

Dec 11, 2025 1h 9m

Talia and Sean are joined by their former co-host and collaborator Alexis Barber (Too Smart For This) to talk about single life, learning to be alone, and the most important things to you in a…

stranger things is back. spotify wrapped season is here.

Dec 05, 2025 1h 10m

We’re back from Thanksgiving and recapping our time away, including Talia’s date with an older man, her quest to find a matchmaker, and all the love we’ve gotten from Spotify Wrapped. Plus, Sean went…

accents are for women. xoxo.

Nov 20, 2025 1h 11m

Is it hot when a man has an accent? Better yet, is it hot when he sounds like a construction worker? Sean and Talia debate the most attractive accents, and the results may surprise you. Plus, we…

fixing your dating profile. peeing in front of your partner.

Nov 13, 2025 1h 7m

It’s time to look through your Hinge profile and actually show some personality. Talia walks us through the bios from some of her recent matches, telling us which ones stood out and why. Is the goal…

this is halloween. this is halloween.

Oct 31, 2025 1h 4m

It’s Halloween, and we’re trick-or-treating our way through all things spoooooky! From Talia’s witchy phase and a heated debate over becoming eternal vampires (would you??) to a full rundown of…

how does sexting work for women? is it ever okay to send emojis?

Oct 24, 2025 53m

How should you initiate texting and what do women actually want to hear when you’re talking dirty over text? Plus, are voice memos just as hot as texts and pics? In this ep we also discuss: Using…

marathoners aren’t impressive. male influencers are out of control.

Oct 18, 2025 1h 6m

It’s marathon season in New York City and Talia is not impressed. Do runners really deserve congratulations for putting themselves through misery (even though no one asked them to)? Plus, we decide…

sean has a girlfriend. talia has some questions.

Oct 10, 2025 1h 6m

Sean has a girlfriend and Talia is thrilled that we can finally talk about it. He spills on the entire saga of going from single life, to an open relationship, to being exclusive with someone new for…

sean forgot his passport. don’t forget to hide your nudes.

Oct 02, 2025 1h

Sean is back from his European vacation and shares all the best stories from his time away, including… how he got a new passport with less than 24 hours notice (miracles really are possible). Plus,…

sabrina carpenter’s album dropped. talia nearly died (sort of).

Sep 04, 2025 56m

Sean and Talia are back with some heated pop culture debates about Sabrina Carpenter’s new album, the upcoming season of TV we’ve been waiting (way too long) for, and a test of Talia’s memory. In…

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