The Big Four Oh: The Podcast About Turning 40

The Big Four Oh: The Podcast About Turning 40

Stephanie McLaughlin

Episodes 158
Avg. Duration 51m
Activity Highly Active
Apple Rating 5.0 (21)
Since Apr 2022
Latest Episode Jun 2026

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Every 2 Weeks
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60%
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About This Podcast

Sometime around age 40 (+/-) you might start feeling like some part of your life no longer fits and you don't know what to do about it. It could be at work or at home - or simply inside of you. You might be asking questions like, "How did I get here?" Or, "Is this all there is?" "Is this what I've been working so hard for?" Or, "Why aren't I happier?" Growing out of her own experience turning 40, Stephanie McLaughlin became captivated by the big “four oh,” and how people handle the milestone birthday. On The Big Four Oh Podcast, Stephanie has conversations with people about their life experience around turning 40. This birthday often comes wrapped in larger life changes, whether it’s a newfound search for meaning, accepting your mortality, or shedding all those things you did because some external authority said you “should.” Her mission is to make it common cultural knowledge that there IS a transition most of us face around age 40, and then showcase so many versions of that transition that every single person approaching, or recently turned, 40 with dread in their heart, knows that they are not alone. I know you don't want to call it a midlife crisis, so I won't, but "if the glove fits, you must acquit." 😉

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S8E148 Turning 40 and rethinking the Millennial midlife crisis

Jun 09, 2026 57m Transcript

There's a difference between surviving the turbulence of life and doing the internal work of transition. Rachel Lobdell is a journalist, mother, and nonprofit executive, approaching 40 with a…

S8E147 Turning 40 and Rewriting Your Origin Story

May 13, 2026 46m Transcript

At 45, MJ Rod discovered that the man she'd believed was her birth father biologically couldn't have been. What followed was a years-long investigation: cold calls, DNA tests, dead ends, and a mother…

S8E146 Turning 40 and becoming the doctor your mother deserved

Apr 30, 2026 52m Transcript

Dr. Polly Watson did everything right. Medical school, residency, a thriving OB-GYN practice, two kids. And yet somewhere in her mid-thirties she looked up and realized the career she built felt…

S8E145 Turning 40 and redefining what normal means

Apr 10, 2026 1h

John King spent decades building a life that looked successful on paper, until it all unraveled in a single moment in his mid-40s. What followed wasn’t a clean reset. It was years of redefining what…

S8E144 Turning 40 and recognizing the patterns keeping you stuck

Mar 17, 2026 53m Transcript

Zoey Charif describes how a painful breakup in her early thirties forced her to confront her lack of self-worth and the relationship patterns she had repeated for years. Growing up across continents,…

S8E143 Turning 40 and choosing safety over chemistry

Feb 25, 2026 54m Transcript

Cora Rennie was a good girl who did everything “right.” Military. Marriage. Motherhood. Long-term partnership. From the outside, her life looked good. Inside, though, something felt off. Cora shares…

S8E142 Turning 40 and discovering why a lifetime of ‘normal’ felt so hard

Feb 10, 2026 1h 7m Transcript

A career pivot in his early 40s forced Nathan Karol to confront something he had not thought about since childhood: how his brain actually works. What followed was not a crisis, but a reorientation.…

S8 The Midlife Burn Book: What People Are Really Saying About Midlife

Feb 01, 2026 26m Bonus Transcript

The Midlife Burn Book: What People Are Really Saying About MidlifeToday, Stephanie McLaughlin shares the unexpected result of an experiment she brought to Podfest 2026: the Midlife Burn Book. Here’s…

S8E141 Turning 40 and realizing burnout was the warning, not the problem

Jan 20, 2026 55m Transcript

Burnout rarely announces itself. It shows up as brain fog, chronic stress, unexplained health issues, and a sense that you are doing everything right but still falling apart. Michelle Niemeyer spent…

S8E140 Turning 40 and becoming “uncorked”

Jan 13, 2026 1h Transcript

What happens when a life that looks “fine” stops feeling true? Mikelann Valterra discusses the strange freedom that can follow loss. From rebuilding financially at age 40 to learning how to trust…

S8E139 Turning 40 and realizing success is not the same as alignment

Jan 06, 2026 59m Transcript

Andrea McGinty built what many people would call the ultimate success story: a booming global business, a high-profile marriage, and great kids. So why did midlife still ask her to stop and…

S8 Reflections: What If You Are Not Falling Apart?

Dec 06, 2025 17m Bonus Transcript

Stephanie digs into the deeper meaning behind that restless, unsettled feeling so many people experience in their thirties and forties. Instead of considering midlife a crisis, she reframes it as a…

S8E138 Turning 40 and asking ‘what if’

Nov 25, 2025 46m Transcript

What if midlife isn’t a crisis at all, but an upgrade you never knew you were getting? In this episode, Stephanie sits down with Dr. Deborah Heiser, a psychologist and midlife specialist who believes…

S8E137 Turning 40 and rewriting the rules of love

Nov 12, 2025 1h 7m Transcript

When Lauren Hayes became a mother in her mid-30s, her fierce independence and lifelong people-pleasing suddenly collided. Parenthood cracked open old patterns she didn’t know were running the show,…

S8E136 Season 8: The Truth About the Midlife Transition

Nov 04, 2025 17m Transcript

If your life looks fine on paper but feels off on the inside, you should probably tune in for the Season 8 opener of The Big Four Oh, in which Stephanie McLaughlin shines a light on the very real…

S7E135 Turning 40 and healing the workaholic

Oct 17, 2025 1h 31m Transcript

When Terry Tateossian hit her late 30s, she was running a successful marketing agency, raising two kids, and running herself into the ground. Two hospital visits later, she realized her body was…

S7E134 Turning 40 and taking the next right step

Oct 02, 2025 57m Transcript

At 43, Ray Martin’s world fell apart. His marriage ended, his business unraveled, and his father passed away, all within months. What looked like an ending became the beginning of his midlife…

S7E133 Turning 40 and tuning into a new frequency

Sep 18, 2025 51m Transcript

Denise Lee’s path through midlife has been anything but simple. From surviving childhood trauma to battling addiction and the pressure to live up to cultural expectations, she spent years feeling…

S7E132 Turning 40 and Googling 'why is my boyfriend so mean to me’

Sep 02, 2025 47m Transcript

What happens when a Google search changes the course of your life? Sabrina Victoria shares how she broke free from a controlling, abusive relationship and rebuilt her life from scratch. From secret…

S7E131 Turning 40 and breaking down in banana bread

Aug 04, 2025 48m Transcript

Turning 40 and breaking down in banana breadWhen Edel Howlin moved from Ireland to Houston in her late 20s, she was certain she was building her dream life. She found her calling in public radio and…

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