We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

Episodes 328
Avg. Duration 1h 7m
Activity Highly Active
Apple Rating 4.7 (2,725)
Since Mar 2020
Latest Episode Jun 2026

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After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email [email protected]   We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4  Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

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Zach Noe Towers Didn’t Watch “Heated Rivalry" — He LIVED It | WHGS Ep. 327

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This episode is living through a real fantasy, listener! Zach Noe Towers is an endlessly lovable stand up comedian whose work has been featured on E!, Netflix, and Comedy Central, but today he’s in…

Rachel Karp Went to EVERY Lesbian Bar in America | WHGS Ep. 326

Jun 01, 2026 1h 11m

This episode is going out tonight, listener! Rachel Karp is a writer, producer, and lesbian bar expert who has been documenting the history of sapphic nightlife in America, but today she’s in the…

Dodie Writes Gay Anthems While Being Straight | WHGS Ep. 325

May 25, 2026 1h 5m

This episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit single, “She,” that took over…

I Made a Listener Trans (and Other Stories) | WHGS Ep. 324

May 18, 2026 57m

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What is “Topping/Bottoming” for Lesbians? (w/ Award-Winning Writer Carmen Machado) | WHGS Ep. 323

May 11, 2026 1h 12m

This episode is all about theory, listener! Carmen Maria Machado is an author, essayist, and finalist for the National Book Award with her impressive body of work around queer identity, but today…

Interviewing My Girlfriend’s Little Gay Brother (Brad Davis) | WHGS Ep. 322

May 04, 2026 1h 10m

This episode is lore heavy, listener! Brad Davis is a queer musician, tech artist, and my dear girlfriend’s little brother, but today he’s in the apartment to be my little BOTTOM! In addition, for…

NOAHFINNCE Had a Fivesome With Each Letter of LGBTQ | WHGS Ep. 321

Apr 27, 2026 1h 2m

This episode is the most inclusive, listener! NOAHFINNCE is a transgender pop-punk musician and YouTuber that’s been rocking the internet since 2015 with his incredible songs, but today he’s in the…

What is the Female Gaze? (w/ Halie Torris) | WHGS Ep. 320

Apr 20, 2026 1h 7m

This episode is depicting women correctly, listener! Halie Torris is an oil painter and visual artist whose incredibly detailed work you’ve seen go viral on TikTok/IG, but today she’s in the…

When Can You Claim You’re “Gay?” (w/ Chelsea Cutler) | WHGS Ep. 319

Apr 13, 2026 1h 8m

This episode is philosophizing, listener! Chelsea Cutler is a singer, songwriter, producer, and one of your favorite queer musicians with over 3 billion global streams and worldwide tours, but today…

Trying Lesbian Sex Parties at Burning Man w/ Andrea Allan | WHGS Ep. 318

Apr 06, 2026 1h 7m

This episode is going all in, listener! Andrea Allan is an unfathomably funny podcaster, comedian, and co-host of “Respectfully” alongside Lizzy Cassidy, but today she’s in the apartment to…

Franchesca Ramsey Has Achieved Pure Bisexuality | WHGS Ep. 317

Mar 30, 2026 1h 12m

This episode is BI, listener! Franchesca Ramsey is an actor, comedian, writer, and producer known for her hyper-viral content and award-winning series “MTV Decoded”, but today she’s in the apartment…

Interviewing Eileen Myles — Legendary Lesbian Poet & “F-Boy” | WHGS Ep. 316

Mar 23, 2026 1h 9m

This episode is POETIC, listener! Eileen Myles (they/them) is a celebrated poet, novelist, and journalist best known for “Chelsea Girls” and poems that queers everywhere tattoo onto their arms, but…

Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315

Mar 16, 2026 1h 8m

This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment…

Jenny Zigrino: Queer History Can Be Found EVERYWHERE | WHGS Ep. 314

Mar 09, 2026 1h 9m

This episode is historic, listener! Jenny Zigrino (Conan, JFL, Don’t Tell) is a hilarious stand up comedian, writer, and performer that breaks boundaries, but today she’s in the apartment to thrust…

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Mar 02, 2026 1h 4m

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Feb 23, 2026 1h 7m

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Roz Hernandez Encounters An Unprecedented Ick | WHGS Ep. 311

Feb 16, 2026 1h 1m

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Kate Sisk Has Become an OF Connoisseur | WHGS Ep. 310

Feb 09, 2026 52m

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I Hooked Up With Alayna Joy (Basically) | WHGS Ep. 309

Feb 02, 2026 1h 8m

This episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast,…

Sarah Keyworth Enrolled in a Dominatrix School | WHGS Ep. 308

Jan 26, 2026 1h 5m

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