X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships

X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships

Scot and Emily McKay

Episodes 62
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Since Jan 2000
Latest Episode Mar 2026

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Show notes, free downloads and more at: https://scotandemily.com/podcast | No AI-generated content, ever. | I'm Scot and she's Emily. We're the dating coaches you know and love over at X & Y Communications. Join us for the most heartfelt and action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating and relationship tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How's that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our newsletter at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com. If you like the podcasts you'll love our newsletter. You can also find us on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/scotandemily. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at [email protected] or via voicemail at +1 (210) 362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate your ratings and reviews. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show for the past ten years!

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Episode 88--X & Y On The Fly--The Seasons Of Marriage (20 Years In!)

Mar 06, 2026

Since our last episode, Emily and I celebrated 20 years together. Over the course of two decades, we've realized there are seasons to a marriage. Now obviously, most couples would hope for an endless…

Episode 86--X & Y On The Fly--What If You're Disappointed?

Oct 17, 2025

Well, here's the first thing you can figure out, just from the title: Emily and I are obviously not disappointed enough in each other to avoid such a touchy topic. BUT...maybe that's a clue why this…

Episode 85--X & Y On The Fly--Dating, Relating And Pets

Aug 08, 2025

Here comes a long-overdue conversation on how pets affect relationships between men and women. As you might have already imagined, this went in probably every direction you could think of and then…

Episode 84--X & Y On The Fly--Dealing With Your Ex (Or Theirs)

May 30, 2025

Maybe Emily and I waited almost 20 years to cover this subject because it's a touchy one that hits just a little too close to home for both of us. But hey, it's an important one. How do you deal with…

Episode 83--X & Y On The Fly--What If We Have Sex Too Soon?

Mar 21, 2025

Nowadays we live in a culture that extols selfhood and immediate gratification. As marriage becomes less revered as an institution, lots of people are asking if there's really any reason to hold off…

Episode 82--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relating: The Next 25 Years

Jan 10, 2025

Last week we covered how dating and relating between men and women has evolved over the past quarter century. But what about the next 25 years...and indeed the rest of this century coming up? What's…

Episode 81--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relating: The Last 25 Years

Jan 03, 2025

Exactly 25 years and one week ago, everyone's attention was on whether or not the dreaded Y2K bug was going to crash the world's computer systems and make planes fall out of the sky. And even as we…

Episode 80--X & Y On The Fly--Should We Get Into A Relationship At All?

Oct 25, 2024

Okay, I'm going to admit right up front that Emily and I obviously believe relationships are worth getting into, since we've shared a great one together for almost 19 years. But we also completely…

Episode 79--X & Y On The Fly--Is That A Dealbreaker?

Aug 15, 2024

In this episode Emily and I address the sticky topic of dealbreakers in a relationship. Is having too many dealbreakers--or focusing on them--a dealbreaker in and of itself? You know, the 'don't…

Episode 78--X & Y On The Fly--Kickin' It Old Skool With My Baby

Jun 07, 2024

First and foremost, if you think even for a second that this episode is going to be about two dinosaurs reminiscing about the past, you're in for a surprise. Given that we've been totally immersed in…

Episode 77--X & Y On The Fly--Underrated Ways To Know You've Found "The One"

Mar 29, 2024

Lots of dating and relationship advice talks about how to know when you've finally met the right partner to build a long-term relationship with. And yes, by now we know the basics about attraction,…

Episode 76--X & Y On The Fly--Dating And Relationships With Someone Younger

Jan 19, 2024

Finally, here's the full episode on a topic that everyone wonders about. It's no secret that men often want to date younger women. But what is it about those guys who are actually successful at doing…

Episode 75--X & Y On The Fly--First Date Weirdness? You Are NOT Alone

Nov 10, 2023

If you've been out there dating for any time at all, you've likely compiled your fair share of weird dating stories. It's easy to think that those situations could only happen to you, and you've GOT…

Episode 74--X & Y On The Fly--Creepy People

Sep 01, 2023

We've all found ourselves out on a date with someone who creeped us out. And no...it's not gender-specific. But what does 'creepy' even mean? Why is it often so hard to define? Well, in this episode…

Episode 73--X & Y On The Fly--What Does A Normal Relationship Look Like?

Jun 23, 2023

Every couple thinks and behaves differently. You've probably thought and behaved differently depending on who your significant other was at a particular time in history. But for sure there are,…

Episode 72--X & Y On The Fly--All About Power Couples

Apr 14, 2023

You hear the term 'power couple' quite a bit, but what exactly does it mean? We know one when we see one, for sure. But is it necessarily a good thing? Would we want to team up with our significant…

Episode 71--X & Y On The Fly--What Dating Is Like For Attractive Women

Feb 03, 2023

It seems to everyone paying attention that beautiful women enjoy a massive 'halo effect'. It's like they're treated like celebrities--or even royalty--everywhere they go. But what else is going on…

Episode 70--X & Y On The Fly--Weed Out The Wrong Ones

Nov 25, 2022

Who knows why this topic hadn't been covered yet around here? My edumckayted guess is it probably had something to do with repressed memories. Yes, Emily and I both are survivors of first marriages…

Episode 69--X & Y On The Fly--Blended Families

Sep 02, 2022

Let's face it, when single moms and single dads get together, it's pure naive idealism that would cause us to expect we're creating our own Brady Bunch. The reality of blended families is much…

Episode 68--X & Y On The Fly--Words That Cannot Be Unsaid

Jun 17, 2022

As the lyrics of one of Tyler Childers' songs say, 'There is hurt you can cause that time alone cannot heal'. When it comes to our interactions with women, a breathtaking amount of that pain is…

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