Xai, how are you?

Xai, how are you?

Michael Sokolovsky and Xava De Cordova

Episodes 268
Avg. Duration 25m
Activity Moderate
Apple Rating 5.0 (66)
Since Feb 2020
Latest Episode May 2026

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Weekly
Consistency
39%
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About This Podcast

Queer Jews Michael Sokolovsky and Rabbi Xava De Cordova play with the multi-millennial dialectic that is the Talmud. Join them as they throw drash, seek prophetic insight and uncover the rabbinic smuttiness inherent in the system.

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Recent Episodes

265. Dough D'Oh

May 26, 2026 27m

When you're a hardworking woman making your own dough, but you end up designating animals for a sacrifice that will never happen, hijinks are bound to ensue. Chuck some money into the Dead Sea and…

264. Rebellious Lashes

May 25, 2026 25m

Want glamorous, long lasting lashes? Try breaking your Nazirite vow by going to a wine tasting after your husband has nullified it. Maybe she's born with it, maybe it's Nazarene. Check catch Shel…

263. Wife Guy

May 04, 2026 19m

Sometimes you can be SUCH a wife guy that you agree to her nazirite vow and later regret it. What happens then? Sign up for Xava and Binya in the UK here: http://bit.ly/torah-in-exile To ask us…

262. Mutually Assured Naziriteship

Apr 29, 2026 22m

What has a never ending paradoxical chain of interlinking vows, women's rights, the Church of England and ordinary halakha? That's right, it's our mishnah! Sign up for Alef Beysics at Shel Maala…

261. Nazirite Tattletales

Apr 15, 2026 19m

What happens when you vow, and then someone comes into court and gives testimony about your vow? But then what if another guy comes in and says something different and then two other guys say…

260. Queen Helene Sets the Scene

Apr 09, 2026 25m

A mishnah about a woman with a name and her own agenda! Now that's a rare treat. Sign up for The Three Oaths here: https://bit.ly/threeoaths To ask us questions, email us at [email protected].…

259. Impurity? In My Cemetery?

Mar 17, 2026 26m

It's more likely than you think! What if you take a Nazirite vow in a spot that is fundamentally incompatible with Naziriteship? Thank GOODNESS the Rabbis thought about this. Catch Liz Furman at Shel…

258. (100) Days of Naziriteship

Mar 15, 2026 34m

After a long ramble about modesty, Xava's upcoming paper, and motivation in Judaism, we get around to a nifty little mishnah about that slippery, weird, in-between day of Naziriteship we call day 30.…

257. Terms and Condiments

Feb 24, 2026 21m

Finally, you all may learn our take on hot dog vs. hamburger and the mundanity of free will. Also, a mishnah in which when you try to be a little too specific, you really get bitten in the butt by…

256. Fiddle Leaf Figs on the Roof

Feb 19, 2026 25m

Mishnah 2 of chapter 3! What if there was a light-year long bridge of dough would that be messed up or what? Check out Shel Maala's PNW Tour here: https://bit.ly/ShelMaalaPNW To ask us questions,…

255. Going Both Ways

Feb 09, 2026 19m

A new chapter of Mishnah begins! Is there such a thing as a day of Naziriteship which can apply to two separate terms, and count for each? Find out if the rabbis are biphobic or not with this one…

254. Russian (Nazirite) Doll

Feb 05, 2026 24m

The tension between the magic of vows and the legal folderol of the Rabbis heightens in this Mishnah about vows within vows. Check out Shel Maala's PNW tour here: http://bit.ly/PNWInterest To ask us…

253. Nazirite, Interrupted

Jan 21, 2026 21m

After a long break (Michael was sick, sorry!) We're back to talk about Nazirite's taking breaks. What if you go on a paternity leave Naziriteship in the middle of your day job Naziriteship? Thank…

252. Schrödinger’s Naziriteship

Dec 24, 2025 29m

And you thought we had unspecified Nazirites before! This week, conditionals within conditionals, hedging our bets, and being embarrassed for our inadequate feelings. Sign up for In the Shadows here:…

251. Born to be a Nazirite, Forced to be Podcaster

Dec 16, 2025 23m

What if you swore a Nazirite vow on the birth of your son, but the numinous indescribable horror of gender said "No."? Find out in this episode! Also we'll talk about some Rabbinic misogyny,…

250. Heroes with a Half Shave

Dec 06, 2025 26m

The shaving saga continues! Rabbi Meir's iconoclastic hot takes return to the pod, along with the mythical half-Nazirite. Do two halves make a whole? Let's find out. To ask us questions, email us…

249. Bros Shaving Bros

Nov 12, 2025 18m

What happens when two totally normal bros vow to shave each other? The Rabbis knew and had rules about it, which they put in this mishnah. Catch Shel Maala's East Coast Tour here:…

248. Exceptional

Nov 05, 2025 23m

Sometimes people make vows claiming or assuming they’ll be the exception to normal Nazirite stuff. The Rabbis say (mostly) no way! Check out Shel Maala’s East Coast Tour here:…

247. Drinking Problems

Oct 27, 2025 20m

Mishnah 3 of chapter 2 is here! What happens when you get a guy to leave you alone at the bar by saying you’re a Nazirite? Let’s find out. Check out Shel Maala’s East Coast Tour here:…

246. Xai Judaism, How Unbound Are You? -- Mishnah Nazir

Oct 14, 2025 58m

Lex Rofeberg and Rena Yehuda Newman of Judaism Unbound join us for a big crossover episode about Nazirite philosophy, Rabbinic agendas, Kol Nidre and the metaphysical importance of vows! The Judaism…

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