Mask Off for Masc with Vance
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About This Podcast
A podcast where Vance, an intimacy coach, talks openly and candidly with other queer men about the issues we face. These in depth and personal conversations are meant to shed a light on our own individual stories of struggle, vulnerability, and authenticity.
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Enzo - Connection, Chaos, and Recovery
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Vance chats with Enzo for a raw conversation about addiction, sobriety, sex work, self-worth, and the chaos of trying to rebuild your life while still being fully…
Brian - Belonging, Grief, and Queer Ritual
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Vance chats with Brian G. Murphy, author of Love Beyond Monogamy, for a conversation about ritual, community, and the ways we create meaning in our lives. Together,…
Tom - Monogamous, Open, or Something Else?
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Vance chats with Tom, a sex and relationship therapist, for an honest conversation about what it feels like to be gay men navigating modern intimacy. Together, they…
Gary - Compulsive Sex, Safety & the Search for Real Intimacy
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Vance chats with Gary Albert — therapist, embodiment facilitator, and former classical musician — to explore the winding path that led him into supporting gay men in…
Dr Dallas - Sober Sex Is Real
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Vance chats with Dr. Dallas Bragg, a recovery coach who supports queer men navigating chemsex and addiction. Dallas opens up about his own journey from addiction to…
Daniel - Getting Off or Getting Real?
Send us Fan MailVance and Daniel dive into the complexities of the adult industry—exploring perceptions, personal journeys, and the importance of intimacy and connection in porn. They unpack the…
David aka Davey Wavey - Love, Lust, and Age Gaps
Send us Fan MailVance sits down with David Jacques, aka Davey Wavey, for a no-holds-barred conversation about dating, hookups, and desire. They swap some of their best (and worst) dating stories and…
Kevin - Authenticity, Mindfulness, and Sexual Empowerment
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Coach Kevin Martin and Vance dive into personal growth, the intersection of therapy and content creation, and the journey of embracing sexuality. We talk about the…
Tim - Sex Education and the Freedom to Be Ourselves
Send us Fan MailIn this engaging conversation, Tim Lagman, a certified sex educator and podcaster, shares insights on sex education, body image, and the complexities of relationships within the…
Nathan - Learning to Love Like Men Who Feel
Send us Fan MailIn this conversation, Vance and Nathan Serrato discuss the intricacies of queer love coaching, the impact of gay masculinity on relationships, and the importance of vulnerability and…
Romance is a Kink (Bonus Episode)
Send us Fan MailTo close out the summer, I wanted to bring you something lighter—especially after the last episode on grief. I’ve always been a romantic at heart. I want to fall madly in love, but as…
Grief (Bonus Episode)
Send us Fan MailThis bonus episode is a vulnerable one. I wanted to talk about grief—how it’s shaped me, how it lingers, and how I still struggle to face it. I’ve also realized how much I struggle…
Stefan - Madonna, Activism, and the Art of Being Unapologetic
Send us Fan MailIt’s the Madonna episode! Anyone who knows me knows how deep my obsession with Madonna runs. But it’s not a superficial fascination—it’s rooted in what she’s represented for me and so…
Jason - What is Intimacy, Really?
Send us Fan MailIn this week’s episode, I chat with Tantra facilitator and sexological bodyworker Jason King. We explore the question: What is intimacy?—especially in the context of sexual…
Firefly - The Truth About Gay Sex, Shame, and Connection
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I chat with Firefly Tantra, who works with men using the practice of Tantra. He breaks down what sessions with clients actually look like, how Tantra compares to…
Matthew - Erotic Performance as a Path to Connection
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I have the pleasure of chatting with the funny and delightful Matthew Shur. We talk about our experiences working with Himeros and how each of us found our way into…
Rahim - How to Care Without Losing Your Mind
Send us Fan MailI had a truly meaningful conversation with my friend Rahim Thawer that I’m excited to share. We explored a wide range of topics, all rooted in the theme of empathy. How do we connect…
Priscilla Mossy Stone - From Conversion Therapy to Freedom
Send us Fan MailMy friend Priscilla Mossy Stone joins me to chat about their story of coming out, going to conversion therapy, and finding their way to drag. We discuss how social norms of…
Jean-Francois - Bodies, Shame, and The Art of Feeling Good
Send us Fan MailI met my friend Jean-Francois a few years ago when we were both fairly new yoga teachers. We reconnected after our yoga paths both crossed into the world of eroticism. We chat about…
Don - Kindness in Uncertain Times
Send us Fan MailIn this episode I am joined by my friend Don Shine, who is a coach/body worker and retreat facilitator for the Body Electric school. At the time of recording this episode it was the…
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Mask Off for Masc with Vance has published 23 episodes since February 2025, covering topics in Health & Fitness, Mental Health.
Mask Off for Masc with Vance is currently active with new episodes every 2 weeks. Average episode length is 1h 1m.
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