Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
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Dating advice, real stories, and honest conversations about modern relationships. Seeing Other People with Ilana Dunn covers everything from first dates and situationships to long-term love, with expert guests, anonymous confessions, and unfiltered takes three times a week.
Whether you're swiping, healing, or somewhere in between...this is your show.
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Recent Episodes
The Reason You're Not Getting a Second Date
Cara Ozek joins the podcast for a conversation about confidence, dating, and the small changes that can have a big impact. From style, grooming, body language, and dating app profiles to dating…
Matchmaker for a Serial Rapist (Without Knowing It)
Addie Sellers joins the podcast to share one of the most shocking experiences of her matchmaking career: working with a client who was later convicted and sentenced to 80 years in prison. We talk…
Red Flags or Dealbreakers? What We'd Think Now vs. When We Were Single
Happy Monday! We're recording from Jake's childhood bedroom fresh off a wedding the night before. We talk about why we're obsessed with vows and speeches, what it's like to hear other couples' love…
My Dating Mistakes I Understand Differently Now
This solo episode is all about hindsight, growth, and the dating choices I understand differently now. I’m reacting to listener-submitted scenarios through two lenses: what past me probably would’ve…
Fertility Anxiety, Egg Freezing & Dating Under Pressure
Lauren Makler joins the podcast for a conversation about fertility anxiety, egg freezing, dating pressure, and the emotional weight so many women carry around timelines. From AMH testing and IVF to…
All Our Dates Are at His House — Should I Be Worried?
Happy anniversary to us — we're recording this one from Miami in the hotel where we took our first trip together five years ago. Jake planned the whole thing, and we almost missed the flight (not our…
Meeting People IRL, App Burnout & Being Comfortable Being Alone
Allison Lane joins the podcast for a conversation about dating in your 30s, meeting people in real life, and the pressure women feel to have everything figured out by a certain age. From run clubs…
When a Second Chance Is Worth It (And When It’s Self-Sabotage)
Dr. Joy Burkheimer joins the podcast for a conversation about second chances, relationship “redemption arcs,” and whether people can actually change after hurting someone they love. From attachment…
Is It a Red Flag If You Never Fight With Your Partner?
We're both sick, we slept until noon, and we have a mystery anniversary trip in two days — Jake planned the whole thing and Ilana has no idea where they're going. We talk froyo orders (gummy bears…
I Thought Hitting My Goals Would Feel Different
For so much of my life, I thought certain milestones would fundamentally change me. The relationship, the career growth, the apartment, the race finish line, the goals I spent years chasing. I…
She Thought She Was “Too Much” Until She Met the Right Person
Chloe Hechter joins the podcast for a conversation about everything your twenties are actually filled with: changing career paths, feeling behind, navigating dating in New York City, and learning how…
Stop Waiting for Him to Confirm the Date & Just Text First
Ilana's recording this one from her deathbed after missing the Brooklyn Half and sleeping the weekend away while Jake walked 25,000 steps to get a burger. Two listener questions this week: a woman…
You’re Not Behind, You’re Just in Your 20s
Meg Reynolds is back and we get real about what your twenties actually feel like—uncertain, uncomfortable, and constantly shifting. From turning 27 and questioning everything to navigating dating,…
30, Single, and Happier Than Ever
This week, I’m joined by content creator Annie Jorgensen to talk about what really shifts when you turn 30 and stop looking for someone to complete you. From a major heartbreak (with a cheating ex…
Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop & I Have a Big Announcement
Jake's back from Florida with a roulette win and some bachelor party receipts. Ilana has a major life announcement that's been months (or years) in the making.. Two listener questions: does astrology…
Your Next Relationship Might Be Around the Corner
In this episode, we sit down with Kerry Russo, the creator behind UES Things, to talk about what it actually means to put yourself out there — and why staying in your comfort zone might be the…
Stop People Pleasing, Start Feeling Secure
Trevor Hanson is back for part two, and this episode goes even deeper into people pleasing, anxious attachment, and what it really means to feel secure in yourself. We talk about why even secure…
Bachelor Parties vs. Bachelorette Parties: We Are Not the Same
Jake's heading to Fort Lauderdale for a bachelor party with zero itinerary and a plan that's basically "watch the Knicks, find a Chili's." We kick things off comparing how differently men and women…
Meeting Someone When You Least Expect It
Juliette Haas is about to leave a life that works — great friends, a solid routine, and NYC exactly as she always imagined it — to move to London anyway. In this episode, we get into what it really…
Why You’re Still Single (It’s Not Bad Luck)
Amy Chan returns to Seeing Other People five years after her first appearance to talk about her new book UNSINGLE and what it actually takes to create a healthy, lasting relationship. We talk about…
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Seeing Other People has published 597 episodes since January 2021, covering topics in Health & Fitness, Mental Health.
Seeing Other People is currently highly active with new episodes every few days. Average episode length is 50m.
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