Episodes 6
Avg. Duration 30m
Activity Declining
Apple Rating 5.0 (3)
Since Nov 2025
Latest Episode Feb 2026

Publishing Details

Schedule
Every 2 Weeks
Format
Episodic
Consistency
22%
Hosting
feeds.captivate.fm

About This Podcast

Welcome to Real Talk, Real love, Really opposite where love, laughter, and life lessons come together! Meet your hosts Toni and Jay a fun loving couple who’ve been married for over 23 years and together for more than 27. With six kids, countless memories, and a deep faith in God, they’ve learned that marriage isn’t always perfect, but it’s always worth it. Each week, they’ll share real conversations, honest stories, and a good dose of humor about what it takes to build and keep a strong relationship. From communication and trust to roles, intimacy, and the messy middle nothing’s off limits! They’ll dive into marriage from both sides of the story a woman’s heart and a man’s mind sharing lessons learned from the highs, the lows, and the moments they didn’t even realize God was guiding them through. So grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and join the conversation. You’ll laugh, you might cry, but most importantly you’ll walk away with hope, understanding, and a few nuggets of wisdom to strengthen your own relationship. Because here, love is the journey, and every story has purpose.

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Recent Episodes

We Don’t Celebrate Valentine’s Day… But Here’s What We Do Instead

Feb 10, 2026 29m

February is here, and while the world gears up for Valentine’s Day, we’re keeping it real—because celebrating February 14th has never really been our thing. From elementary school Valentine’s cards…

Are you too busy for love?

Feb 02, 2026 33m

What’s up, y’all? We’re back for another real-talk Tuesday, and this week we’re diving into a question a lot of couples quietly struggle with: are you too busy for love? From packed schedules and…

Birthday Love: Making Your Partner Feel Seen

Jan 19, 2026 26m

This week on Opposites, But Always Us, we’re celebrating Jay’s birthday and using it as the perfect moment to talk about appreciation, effort, and making your partner feel special. From joking about…

Who We Are: The Story Behind the Love

Jan 12, 2026 29m

Welcome back to Opposites, But Always Us! In this episode, Toni and Jay finally share who they are and how it all began, from meeting at a Colorado Springs carnival in 1998, to a dead goldfish, a…

His Role, Her Role… or Our Role?

Jan 12, 2026 31m

In this episode of Opposites, But Always Us, we dive into the real conversation around marital roles what they are, where they come from, and how they actually play out in everyday marriage. From…

Who We Are: Built on Love & Laughter

Dec 14, 2025 24m

Welcome to Opposites, But Always Us hosted by Toni and Jay McSwain, a married duo with 27 years of history (and 23+ years of marriage) proving that real love doesn’t have to look perfect to be…

Welcome to Opposites, but Always Us

Nov 18, 2025 1m Trailer

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How many episodes does Opposites, But Always Us have?

Opposites, But Always Us has published 6 episodes since November 2025, covering topics in Comedy, Education.

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Opposites, But Always Us is currently declining with new episodes every 2 weeks. Average episode length is 30m.

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