Your Secret Is Safe With Me

Your Secret Is Safe With Me

Dr. Marie Murphy

Episodes 235
Avg. Duration 35m
Activity Highly Active
Apple Rating 4.7 (102)
Since Sep 2020
Latest Episode Jun 2026

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Schedule
Weekly
Format
Episodic
Consistency
100%
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About This Podcast

Dr. Marie Murphy talks about infidelity and other challenging relationship situations from a non-judgmental perspective. She shares practical tools and advice from her own coaching practice to help you make changes in your love life, and interviews professionals with complementary expertise, such as family law attorneys, mediators, non-violent communication specialists, and more. In addition, Marie discusses the social and historical context of romantic relationships to provide perspective on our taken-for-granted assumptions about how relationships are supposed to be. To learn more, visit mariemurphyphd.com.

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Recent Episodes

235: Emotional Affairs

Jun 04, 2026 35m

What exactly is an emotional affair, and how do you know if you're having one? Despite how often the term gets used, there is surprisingly little agreement about what an emotional affair actually…

234: Resisting the Urge to Contact Your (Ex) Affair Partner

May 21, 2026 34m

What do you do when you've decided you don't want to continue your affair, but you still desperately want to contact your affair partner? So many people assume that if they truly wanted the…

233: How to Have Better Sex (Part 3)

May 07, 2026 34m

What does better sex actually require once you've clarified your desires and started rebuilding a connection with your partner? If you want better sex in a long-term relationship, the next step…

232: How to Have Better Sex (Part 2)

Apr 23, 2026 31m

What if having better sex has less to do with what you do in bed and more to do with how you show up with your partner every day? If your sex life has been unsatisfying or nonexistent for a while,…

231: How to Have Better Sex (Part 1)

Apr 09, 2026 28m

What does better sex actually mean to you, and have you ever really stopped to define it for yourself? So many people say they want better sex, but when we look closer, they're focused on specific…

230: When Your Infidelity Situation Takes Over Your Life

Mar 26, 2026 35m

When your infidelity situation starts to take over everything, it can feel like it's the only thing that matters, the only thing worth thinking about, and the only thing that will determine whether…

229: Radical Un-Shaming with David Bedrick

Mar 12, 2026 54m

Radical un-shaming sounds lovely in theory, but what does it actually look like when you are dealing with desires, behaviors, or parts of yourself that other people insist are unacceptable? In…

228: Podcast Greatest Hits: When You Love Your Partner and You Still Want to Cheat

Feb 26, 2026 27m

Is it possible to deeply love your partner and still want to have sex or romantic experiences with someone else? If you're in a committed relationship that was supposed to be monogamous, and you…

227: Love, Sex, and Romance: What Do You Really Want?

Feb 12, 2026 27m

Have you been so immersed in your infidelity situation that it feels impossible to think clearly about anything else, let alone what you actually want from your love life? When emotions run high…

226: Recovering From a "Bad Decision"

Jan 29, 2026 35m

Have you ever been paralyzed by the fear of making a "bad decision" about your infidelity situation? Maybe you're terrified that you'll leave a good-enough marriage to pursue your affair partner,…

225: Drunken One-Night Stands

Jan 15, 2026 29m

You had a drunken one-night stand while in a committed relationship, and now you're out of sorts about it. Maybe you're torturing yourself with questions like: "Do I have to tell my partner?" "What…

224: Going All-In On Your Desires

Jan 01, 2026 39m

Do you want to be lying on your deathbed saying, "Oh yeah, I'm really glad I didn't take that risk"?Or would you rather say, "Thank God I went all in on my desires"? I'm asking because I just made…

223: Whose Job Is It to Change the Conversation About Infidelity?

Dec 18, 2025 38m

Have you ever found yourself keeping silent when someone makes a sweeping judgment about infidelity? Maybe you've sat through conversations where people say things like "all cheaters are damaged…

222: Dating for the First Time in a Long Time

Dec 04, 2025 35m

The fear of dating again after a long period of not dating is definitely a factor that keeps some people from thinking clearly about what they want to do about their infidelity situation. In this…

221: Why I Work with Affair Couples as Individuals

Nov 20, 2025 35m

Working with couples separately might seem counterintuitive when challenges arise. The dominant cultural narrative tells us that relationship problems require both partners in the same room with a…

220: Vacillating Between Two Relationships

Nov 06, 2025 32m

Going back and forth between two relationships can feel like being trapped in an endless ping-pong match. One moment you're certain about choosing your spouse, the next you're convinced your affair…

219: Thriving After Infidelity: Michael's Story

Oct 23, 2025 1h 3m

Maybe you're in the midst of an affair, paralyzed by guilt and uncertainty. Maybe you're losing sleep, watching your health decline, and feeling like there's no good way out. Today, I want to share…

218: Creating the Future vs. Predicting the Future

Oct 09, 2025 31m

You're already making plans for tomorrow without knowing if the internet will crash, your dog will have an emergency, or an earthquake will hit. You're creating your future every single day,…

217: The Perils of Telling the Truth

Sep 25, 2025 31m

Have you ever felt proud of yourself for telling the truth… only to later wonder if you should have approached it differently? We often think of truth-telling as an absolute good - something that's…

216: When Your Affair Partner Breaks Your Heart

Sep 11, 2025 33m

Have you ever had someone walk out of your life without warning, only to reappear months later as if nothing happened? It's complicated enough when it happens in regular relationships. But when it…

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