After Thot
Necterine
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About This Podcast
We had our thot era. Now we name what it taught us. After Thot is your weekly debrief, unpacking modern dating lore with anonymous moments, guest messes, and the perspective that turns end-of-the-world instances into afterthoughts. Clarity is our kink.
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The Story of Mr. Ken Doll: The Soccer God Who Took My Virginity and My Appetite (solo episode)
This one's just me, no guest — the first in a new monthly series where I crawl back through my own messy dating history and report what I found. Consider this me stepping out from behind the host…
75 First Dates, a Tinder Tour, and the Dating App Playbook That Actually Works (feat. Alex Jacobs)
This week Holly is joined by Alex Jacobs — NYC-based tutor, musician, the friend-of-her-best-friend she somehow went to Oberlin with for four years without ever meeting, and a certified, gold-medal,…
Found God Through a Situationship. Lost Her Mind Shortly After. (feat. Natasha Hunt Lee)
Natasha Hunt Lee — musician, events princess behind Stargirls, and LA lifer — pulls up to spill one of the most unhinged dating arcs we've had on the show. We get into growing up in LA with parents…
Turns Out He's Not Emotionally Unavailable, He's Just Never Met Himself (feat. Mick Silver)
Holly met Mick Silver about two years ago when he was on a panel at the very first Necterine event — fresh out of grad school, dropping the kind of insights that made Holly walk away thinking, I need…
Turned Him Down for Seven Years. Plot Twist: He Was the One the Whole Time. (feat. Kate Van Horn)
Holly met Kate Van Horn during a psychic training over COVID — which tells you basically everything you need to know about the kind of friendship this is. For months they sent voice notes back and…
The Dating Coach Had a Situationship Era Too. Here's What She Found on the Other Side. (feat. Hannah Ehrlich)
Hannah Ehrlich has spent the last decade helping people find love — building frameworks, coaching clients, matching strangers, and asking the hard questions most people avoid on a first date. And…
Turns Out You've Been Dating Your Childhood Trauma This Whole Time (feat. Cate Pileggi)
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Cate Pileggi, joins Holly to explain why that irresistible spark might just be your nervous system recognizing a familiar wound. They get into attachment…
Came to LA for a Thot Era, Got a Girlfriend Instead feat. Lexie Lombard & Spencer Bland
Lexie Lombard has been single for most of her 20s — by choice. Spencer Bland came to LA for a slutty era and accidentally fell in love by week three. Together with Holly, they get into divorced…
Addicted to the Drama Until Her Body Sent an Invoice - feat. Charlotte Chimes
Charlotte Chimes has lived enough romantic lifetimes to fill a TV show — which, actually, she's currently writing. She's also one of Holly's best friends, which means this conversation goes places…
S1 Welcome to your After Thot Era
Ever convinced yourself that the butterflies were chemistry — and not, turns out, just anxiety in a trench coat? Yeah. This podcast is for you.After Thot is where dating, love, attachment, and…
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After Thot has published 10 episodes since March 2026, covering topics in Education, Relationships.
After Thot is currently highly active with new episodes weekly. Average episode length is 1h 14m.
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