gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show
Steve Bennet-Martin
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gAy A delivers inspiring stories about queer people in sobriety who are achieving amazing feats in their recovery, proving that we are all LGBTQIA+ sober heroes.
If you are looking for a safe space where all queer people, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, age, length of sober time, or method of recovery are valid, this is the sober show for you. If you are sober, you are a hero!
This show is not affiliated with any program or institution, so you will hear stories from alcoholics and addicts where people mention getting sober using recovery methods such as rehabilitation, both inpatient and outpatient rehabs, sober living, hospitals, and some of us who got sober at home on our own. Guests may mention twelve step programs like AA, CMA, SMART Recovery, or other methods, while accepting that no one answer is perfect for everyone.
This podcast will provide valuable insights for any interested in learning more about queer recovery, from those of us with years or even decades of recovery under their belt, to people just beginning their sobriety journey, to even the sober curious or friends and family of alcoholics and addicts.
Each week, host Sober Steve the Podcast Guy tries to answer the following questions in various formats and with different perspectives:
· How do I get and stay sober in the queer community?
· Can you have fun while being sober and gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or queer?
· What does a sober life as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community look like?
· Where do sober gay and queer people hang out?
· How can I have good sex sober?
· What are tips and tricks for early sobriety?
· How can I get unstuck or out of this rut in my recovery?
· How will my life change if I get sober?
· Can you be queer and sober and happy?
· How can I untangle sex and alcohol and drugs?
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Recent Episodes
S2E53 Here Queer Sober 2025 Update
Send us Fan MailHey Super Sober Heroes— I’m back with another special update, this time joined by my longtime friend and guest, Phil from Here Queer Sober.Phil shares the exciting news about the…
S2E52 Still Sober, Still Sexy, Still Strong - Life Updates from Steve
Send us Fan MailHey Super Sober Heroes— I’m back on the mic with a long-overdue update!It’s been almost six months since my last episode, and so much has happened in my life and recovery journey. As…
S2E51 TTFN
Send us Fan MailHey there, Super Sober Heroes 💖It’s your host, Sober Steve, checking in with 1,397 days of sobriety and a big announcement: gAy A is going on an indefinite hiatus.After nearly four…
S2E50 Finding Light in the Darkness ft. Dillon
Send us Fan MailSuper Sober Heroes, we’re back with another in-person interview, and this week, I’m sitting down with my friend Dillon! 🏳️🌈💜 Dillon opens up about his journey to sobriety, how a…
S2E49 Living Fearlessly Queer & Sober with India X Miller
Send us Fan MailHey there, Super Sober Heroes! Your host Sober Steve is here with 1,357 days sober, and this episode is extra special because we are recording in person for the first time! I’m…
S2E48 The AI Interview – Answering Big Questions About Queer Sobriety with Phil B
Send us Fan MailSuper Sober Heroes, we're back for Part 2 with Phil B, co-founder of Here Queer Sober! 🎉 And this time, we’re shaking things up—AI is asking the questions!Phil and I tackle some of…
S2E48 Coming Out the Other Side with Phil B – Career, Recovery & Here Queer Sober
Send us Fan MailSuper Sober Heroes, welcome back! Today, I’m joined once again by my dear friend and co-founder of Here Queer Sober, Phil B! With 7 years, 9 months, and 24 days sober, Phil shares…
S2E47 Feeling the Feelings ft. Holland
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, host Steve is joined by the amazing Holland, who shares his journey to recovery, approach to spirituality, and how sobriety has…
S2E46 Sober Gay Adventures ft. Johnny
Send us Fan MailEpisode Highlights🌍 Traveling Sober & Building Community:Johnny shares how he founded Sober Gay Adventures, offering intimate, 10-day trips for queer sober travelers to explore…
S2E45 Stay Strong, Do Good, Be Brave ft. Adam S
Send us Fan MailSuper Sober Heroes, today I’m joined by Adam Schuler, a writer and advocate for addiction recovery, who shares his powerful journey through relapse, resilience, and ultimately…
S2E44 Aging into Authenticity in Recovery ft. Mark V
Send us Fan MailHey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A, I’m joined by returning guest and podcast favorite, Mark, as we dive into the transformative power of sobriety and how it’s helped…
S2E43 Sober Holiday Tips and Tricks from the Vault
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of gAy A, your queer sober hero show, I’m sharing holiday tips and tricks to help you navigate the festive season while staying sober. Whether you’re celebrating your…
S2E42 Still Fucked and Insane ft. Scott G
Send us Fan MailIn this episode, originally released on April 22nd, 2022, Steve welcomes Scott to share their experience, strength, and hope with you, along with advice on getting and staying…
S2E41 Addiction and Zodiac Signs Revisited
Send us Fan MailEpisode Description: Hey there, Super Sober Heroes! This week on Gay A, I’m diving back into the vault to revisit one of my earliest episodes on astrology and addiction. Originally…
S2E40 Sober, Queer, & Kinky ft. Ralf: Embracing Recovery and Authenticity
Send us Fan MailSober Steve is joined by Ralf Rasmussen, host of RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay! Ralf shares his journey from addiction to seven years of sobriety, delving into the challenges…
S2E39 Steve on RealClearFetish! Talks RealClearPlay!
Send us Fan MailCheck out my guest appearance on RealClearTalk this week, and check out the show wherever you find this podcast!!Show notes from the episode:Steve B has been sober since May 28th,…
S2E38 Stay Connected, Stay Sober ft. Richard D
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Gay A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, host Sober Steve welcomes Richard Dean, a fellow sober friend, to share his inspiring journey through addiction, recovery, and the…
S2E38 Blank Spaces, Brave Faces, and Swift Steps ft. Julianne Griffin
Send us Fan MailIn this episode of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show, Sober Steve welcomes back Julianne Griffin, aka Jewels, the founder of Swift Steps—a unique sober community for Swifties in…
S2E37 Traveling in Sobriety ft. Frankie
Send us Fan MailHey there, super sober heroes! 🦸🏽♂️ This week on Gay A, Sober Steve is thrilled to welcome back a fan-favorite guest and globetrotter, Frankie New! Steve and Frankie dive into a…
S2E36 Sobriety, Social Media, and Self Care ft. Jaycee K Clark
Send us Fan MailHey, Super Sober Heroes! In this episode of gAy A, Sober Steve welcomes back Jaycee K. Clark for a powerful conversation on the impact of social media on mental health and sobriety.…
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gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show has published 238 episodes since June 2021, covering topics in Education, Health & Fitness.
gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show is currently dormant with new episodes weekly. Average episode length is 22m.
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