Love & Life, Sorted
Dr. Sandy To
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A Cambridge PhD sociologist's intimate, no-BS talk about love, family and everything in between.
Join Dr. Sandy To, marriage and family sociologist and author of the acclaimed book, China’s Leftover Women: Late Marriage among Professional Women and its Consequences (Routledge), featured in TIME, CNN, BBC, and more, for no-BS conversations about the stuff that really matters: dating as a high-powered career woman, finding a marriage partner over 30, who's doing the work in the marriage, what's the catch on motherhood and fertility etc.
Whether you're single and skeptical, married and mystified, or parenting through chaos...Let's sort life, one chat at a time! ✨
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How to Manifest Your Soulmate like Dua Lipa: “Training Season” Manifestation Secrets
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Love & Life, Sorted has published 39 episodes since September 2025, covering topics in Education, How To.
Love & Life, Sorted is currently highly active with new episodes weekly. Average episode length is 31m.
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