Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys
Truly Eleanor Intuitive Dating Coach
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Welcome to the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. This is the show for single women over 40 who are done wasting time on emotionally unavailable guys and ready for real, healthy love.
I’m Truly Eleanor, an intuitive dating coach with over 17 years of experience, and I help women stop chasing, stop doubting, and start choosing relationships that actually feel good.
If you’ve ever thought:
“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of guy?”
“Why does healthy love feel unfamiliar?”
“Why does dating feel harder the moment I start to care?”
You’re in the right place.
This podcast is where emotional healing meets real-world dating, so you can finally trust yourself, spot red flags early, and move toward love that’s calm, mutual, and deeply connected.
And to get started, download my free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 (+ How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast) at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps
Love is closer than you think. Let’s get started.
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S6E63 Ep #63 From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust: How to Break the Unavailable Love Pattern After 40
You already know you keep choosing unavailable men. What you might not know yet is why.My guest this week, Pi Venus Winslow, spent years chasing connections that left her with a broken heart and no…
S6E62 Ep #62: Is That Your Gut or Your Fear? A Body-Based Guide for Women Dating After 40
You've Googled it. You've journaled about it. You've asked your therapist.And you still can't tell if what you're feeling is your intuition or just that old anxiety doing its thing again.In Episode…
S6E61 Ep #61 Why Intuitive Women Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men After 40
You can know something 150% and still talk yourself out of it.This override is the central reason you keep ending up in the same place, with the same guy, in a different sweater.In this Season 6…
S5E60 Ep #60 The Identity Shift That Changes Everything About How You Date
You've been doing the work. The journaling, the reflecting, the quiet moments where something clicked that you can't quite explain yet. This episode is your chance to feel how far you've actually…
S5E59 Ep #59 Ready for Love After 40? Or Just Waiting to Feel Ready?
You're not hiding behind healing anymore. You're not stuck in the waiting room. You're actually at the door.And somehow... you're still not walking through it.Here's a clue that something has quietly…
S5E58 Ep #58 Dating After 40: The Subtle Mistake That Keeps Love at a Distance
If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done the healing work, raised your standards, and promised yourself “never again” but now find yourself feeling guarded, cautious, and a little closed off, this…
S5E57 Ep #57 Dating After 40: The Hidden Reason You Never Feel Ready for Love
If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done all the things: therapy, journaling, inner child work, energy clearing, and you still feel like, “I’m just not quite ready yet”… this episode is for you.In…
S5E56 Ep #56 Dating After 40: How to Stay Open and Still Protect Your Heart
If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve built a strong, independent life… but still find yourself attracting emotionally unavailable men or feeling completely drained by dating, this episode is for…
S5E55 Ep #55 Emotional Safety Is the New Chemistry in Dating After 40
If you’re dating after 40 and the only connections that feel exciting are the ones that leave you anxious, overthinking everything, and wondering where you stand, this episode will change the way you…
S5E54 Ep #54 Why You Pull Away From Good Guys (Dating After 40 Pattern Explained)
Have you ever gone on a date with a genuinely good guy… and then felt a sudden urge to pull away?Not because he did anything weird or said something offensive.Just a strong internal reaction that…
S5E53 Ep#53 Dating After 40: How to Tell the Difference Between Intuition + Fear
Last week we talked about anxiety when you like him. This week, we go deeper. Because once you understand your nervous system… the real question becomes:Can you tell the difference between fear and…
S5E52 Ep #52 What to Do When You Like Him and Anxiety Shows Up
If you’re dating after 40 and you finally meet someone you genuinely like… and instead of feeling calm and excited, your body goes into panic mode, this episode is for you.Anxiety means something…
S5E51 Ep #51 Stop Proving Your Worth in Dating: Choose Love That Chooses You
If you’re dating after 40 and keep finding yourself trying to secure your place in someone’s life, by explaining yourself, being endlessly understanding and waiting for him to be ready, this episode…
S5E50 Episode #50 Stop Overgiving in Dating: How to Finally Receive Love After 40
If you’re dating after 40 and keep finding yourself in the role of emotional caretaker, always understanding, always giving the benefit of the doubt, always staying longer than feels good, this…
S5E49 EP #49 Why Healthy Love Feels Unfamiliar: And Why That’s Not a Red Flag
If you’re dating after 40 and keep feeling drawn to emotionally unavailable guys even though what you want is calm, secure love, this episode will help you understand why.In the first episode of…
S4E48 Episode #48 Dating After 40? 3 Steps To Break Old Patterns And Attract Healthy Love
If you’re a single woman over 40 who’s tired of choosing emotionally unavailable guys, doubting yourself, or wondering why dating feels so exhausting, this episode gives you the roadmap you’ve been…
S4E47 Episode #47 Dating Over 40? Here’s How to Silence the Self-Doubt
If you’re dating after 40 and you feel like you are the thing getting in your own way, this episode is going to help you finally move forward. Today we’re unpacking the one pattern that kept me…
S4E46 Episode #46 Finding Love After 40: What to Do When You Feel Hopeless and Stuck
If you’ve been dating after 40 and you’re starting to lose hope, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing the truth: feeling stuck isn’t a sign that…
S4E45 Episode #45 How to Stop Believing It’s Too Late for Love: A Guide for Women Over 40
How to Stop Believing It’s Too Late for Love: A Guide for Women Over 40If you’ve ever had that sinking fear that love has passed you by… you’re not alone. Dating after 40 can feel like a dizzying…
S4E44 Episode #44 Dating in Your 40s: How to Survive the Emotional Rollercoaster
Dating in your 40s can feel like a cosmic rollercoaster. One minute you’re certain today’s the day you meet Mr. Right. The next, you’re on the couch, wine in hand, convinced love ghosted you for…
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