Episodes 194
Avg. Duration 34m
Activity Moderate
Apple Rating 3.8 (120)
Since Nov 2020
Latest Episode May 2026

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Schedule
Every 2 Weeks
Format
Episodic
Consistency
65%
Hosting
www.spreaker.com

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About This Podcast

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more. 

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BPD Joint Therapy Fantasy BPD Right Fighting Pathological Lying vs Your Eggshell Walking

May 10, 2026 1h 7m Transcript

BPD Joint Therapy Fantasy BPD Right-Fighting & Pathological Lying vs Your Eggshell-WalkingBPD joint therapy doesn’t work and is a fantasy bonded nightmare of Borderline victim/martyr cs your…

S10E190 BPD Negative Behavior - Don’t Confront It - What Can You Do_

Apr 08, 2026 32m Transcript

BPD Negative Behavior - Don’t Confront It - What Can You Do?BPD Negative Behavior - You can’t confront it. You may have unsuccessfully tried endless times. It increases your suffering each time, but…

S10E192 High Functioning Borderlines in Careers vs Relationships

Apr 05, 2026 59m Transcript

High Functioning BPD in Careers vs RelationshipsHow can a person diagnosed with BPD and with many active Borderline traits, behaviour etc in a relationship possibly function in careers, and often be…

Co-Parenting or Paralell Parenting With a BPD Ex - Another RollerCoaster

Feb 28, 2026 59m Transcript

Co-Pareting or Parallel Parenting With a BPD Ex - Another RollerCoasterCo-Parenting or Parallel parenting with a BPD - Borderline Personality Disordered Ex is for somany people, a nightmare. Not all…

S10E190 BPD Sudden Discard of Monkey Branching Crushed Future

Feb 03, 2026 47m Transcript

BPD Sudden Discard of Monkey Branching Crushed FutureMany people who have been in short term or long term relationships with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder experience a BPD sudden…

S10E189 The Glass Borderline "H*mpty D*mpty" No Real Self

Jan 18, 2026 27m Transcript

The Glass Borderline 'H*mpty D*mpty' No Real Self BPD Breakups and Codependent BPD Exes endless "what if's' in the confusion, losing of yourself, the rumination, the cognitive dissonance and the…

S10E188 Reactive Abuse in BPD Partners and Exes

Dec 21, 2025 25m Transcript

Reactive Abuse in BPD Partners and Exes is a trauma-informed podcast focused on understanding reactive abuse, emotional dysregulation, and the complex relationship dynamics that can occur with…

S10E187 Misunderstanding BPD Intensity as Love

Dec 06, 2025 48m Transcript

Misunderstanding BPD Intensity as LoveSo many partners and ex-partners of people with untreated Borderline Personality Disorder mistake the early intensity for love—because it feels overwhelming,…

S10E186 BPD Hypersexuality Is Self-Soothing And You are The Bandage

Dec 05, 2025 23m Transcript

BPD Hypersexuality Is Self-Soothing And You are The BandageIn this episode, we explore the misunderstood and often painful dynamic of Borderline hypersexuality—not as “promiscuity,” not as a moral…

S10E185 Why BPD Relationships Fail - Repetition Compulsions Projection and Projective Identification

Oct 28, 2025 18m Transcript

Why BPD Relationships Fail - Repetition Compulsions Projection and Projective IdentificationIn this episode, A.J. Mahari explains how unconscious repetition compulsions, projection, and BPD…

S10E184 Borderline Induced Conversations - When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents

Oct 12, 2025 19m Transcript

Borderline Induced Conversations - When Talking Turns Into Trauma for CodependentsWhen you try to talk to someone with Borderline Personality Disorder and the conversation suddenly turns emotional,…

S10E183 Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception

Oct 11, 2025 29m Transcript

Borderline Love a Looping Trap of DeceptionBorderline Love is a looping trap of deception rooted in fantasy, betrayal, false hope, and trauma bonded dynamics of pseudo attachment and the Borderline…

S10E182 The Invisible Borderline Man Why Women Don't See Him Coming

Sep 20, 2025 12m Transcript

The Invisible Borderline Man - Why Women Don't See Him ComingThe invisible Borderline man. Why is he so invisible? Are men diagnosed properly enough with BPD - the answer is no. This doesn't help in…

S9E181 Borderline Man Unmasked

Sep 15, 2025 16m Transcript

Borderline man unmaskedThe Borderline Man Unmasked. Yes, men have BPD too! It is important that women learn more about the many ways the 'Borderline Man' does differ from women with BPD. There are…

S9E180 The Broken BPD Man Fantasy

Sep 15, 2025 12m Transcript

The Broken BPD Man FantasyThe Broken BPD Man Fantasy is very real for women. Yes, men have Borderline Personality Disorder too! Countless numbers of women suffer with men with BPD in those trauma…

S9E179 BPD Love Legacy of Doubt 5 Reasons Why Closure is An Illusion

Sep 13, 2025 16m Transcript

BPD Love Legacy of Doubt 5 Reasons Closure is An Illusion]BPD Love leaves a legacy of doubt. There are 5 main reasons why closure is an illusion during or after a BPD Breakup, ghos6 and/or discard.…

S9E178 Quiet BPD 10 Reasons Why It Dsstroys Relationships

Sep 08, 2025 36m Transcript

Quiet BPD 10 Reasons It Destroys RelationshipsQuiet BPD 10 reasons it destroys relationships. Often people in a relationship with someone with Quiet BPD, also known as the Discouraged BPD Subtype, it…

S9E177 10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering

Sep 06, 2025 33m Transcript

10 Ways BPD Relationship Recycling Increases Your Suffering10 ways that BPD relationship recycling actually strengthens your suffering and the trauma/fantast bond hurting you more and activating your…

S9E176 BPD Love is a Reverse Fairytale

Aug 24, 2025 19m Transcript

BPD Love is a Reverse FairyTaleWhat starts like a pseudo BPD relationships fairytale in reverse ends in emotional devastation—and you’re left wondering what happened. In this episode, I explore why…

S9E175 Enmeshed in a BPD Relatioship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling Cycles

Aug 24, 2025 16m Transcript

Enmeshed in a BPD Relationship? 5 Codependent Hooks Fueling CyclesAre you enmeshed in a BPD relationship? Why can’t you let go—even when it’s hurting you? This Codependency Inside Out, surviving…

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