Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Episodes 725
Avg. Duration 46m
Activity Highly Active
Apple Rating 4.7 (886)
Since Feb 2016
Latest Episode Jun 2026

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Every Few Days
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About This Podcast

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much from dating apps? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the New York Times, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily call one of the top podcasts about dating, love, and relationships. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do. Together we'll navigate modern dating with more compassion, fun, and intention so you can create the love life you've always wanted!

Join us every Wednesday as we talk to real daters and experts about the entire gamut of modern dating and relationships – from securing your anxious attachment, choosing the right partner for you, healing from your breakup to dating in your 30s and beyond. Make sure to send us your burning dating questions as we answer them every Sunday!

If you're looking for a podcast that's relatable and full of emotional support and substance, then look no further. Let us be your biggest cheerleaders as you navigate dating in this crazy Dateable world.

Send us your brunchtalk questions at [email protected] or leave your question in a review!

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Big Dateable Energy Facebook group. Check out our website for more content and join our Finding Your Person Program!: https://www.findingyourperson.com/

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

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What Your Anxiety Means When Dating: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

Jun 12, 2026 25m Transcript

Is the anxiety you’re feeling a signal of real connection – or something happening within you that’s worth understanding? We're unpacking the complex relationship between anxiety and dating, and how…

S22E18: How To Actually Connect With People You Meet IRL...At Social Activities, Sports, Clubs, Events, and Beyond

Jun 09, 2026 50m Transcript

What if the reason meeting people feels so hard right now isn’t because you’re doing something wrong, but because the entire social landscape has changed? We’re unpacking what it actually looks like…

Why Texting In Dating Doesn't Matter As Much As We Think: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

Jun 05, 2026 25m Transcript

We’re constantly told that texting is the key to building connection—but what if constant communication is actually creating a false sense of intimacy? In this episode, we’re unpacking the role…

S22E17: What Everyone Gets Wrong About Being Single (From Someone Who Has Been Single Her Entire Life) w/ Dr. Bella DePaulo

Jun 02, 2026 58m Transcript

What if you actually love living alone and are sick of the pitying looks from those who couldn't imagine happiness outside of coupledom? We're joined by Dr. Bella DePaulo who describes herself as…

How To Not Abandon Yourself In Dating & Relationships: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

May 29, 2026 24m Transcript

We often think being a good partner means putting someone else first—but what happens when you lose yourself in the process? In this episode, we’re unpacking self-abandonment in relationships and the…

S22E16: How To Navigate Uncertainty (In Dating) w/ Simone Stolzoff

May 26, 2026 59m Transcript

If one things for certain, there's a lot of uncertainty in dating, relationships, and the world right now. We're joined by journalist and author Simone Stolzoff to talk about why people struggle so…

The Difference Between Bad Timing & Readiness: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

May 22, 2026 24m Transcript

We often hear the idea of “right person, wrong time”—but what if that’s not really what’s happening? In this episode, we’re unpacking how timing and readiness often get confused in relationships, and…

S22E15: The Dating Funnel That Will Get You From The First Date To A Real Relationship w/ Amy Chan

May 19, 2026 1h 1m Transcript

Could you really be one to two shifts away from having the type of healthy relationship you've always wanted? Our guest today, Amy Chan, believes so as she talks about the dating experiment that…

The Right Time To Have Sex: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

May 15, 2026 23m Transcript

We often get the question—when is the right time to have sex? In this episode we're digging into what we wish we knew when it came to sex, timing and the intimacy / expectations that come from it.…

S22E14: Bringing The Magic Back To Dating

May 12, 2026 54m Transcript

We've gotten so good at being intentional about dating, but in the process we've lost the magic. Today we're discussing how dating isn’t just about waiting for sparks or optimizing every move –it’s…

The Biggest Mistake In Dating: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

May 08, 2026 26m Transcript

What if one of the biggest mistakes in dating is also one of the most common—and hardest to admit? If you’re hoping someone will change or dating someone for their potential instead of who they are…

S22E13: From Dating Struggles To Finding Your Person: Real Stories From Dateable Listeners

May 05, 2026 1h 4m Transcript

What if we were to tell you in 6 years your love life would like entirely different in the best way possible? We're so excited to bring you this episode where we check in with some of the members of…

The Trait To Look Out For When Dating: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

May 01, 2026 23m Transcript

What if we told you there is one trait that predicts if a relationship will work out (or not)? And this absolutely should be something you're looking for when dating. If someone you're seeing doesn't…

S22E12: The Science of Intimacy, Sex, and Love w/ Dr. Justin Garcia

Apr 28, 2026 1h 24m Transcript

At our core, we’re not just wired for sex—we’re wired for deep connection with another human being. In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Justin Garcia, leading sex researcher, evolutionary biologist,…

What's More Important Than Being Chosen: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

Apr 24, 2026 20m Transcript

Why do we place so much weight on being chosen and what does it actually get us? In this episode, we dig into how we’ve confused attention with real investment and chased validation instead of asking…

S22E11: Rewiring Your Attachment Style w/ Thais Gibson

Apr 21, 2026 1h 7m Transcript

We all know our attachment styles greatly impact how we show up in dating and relationships, but what do we do if we have anxious or avoidant tendencies? We’re joined by attachment expert Thais…

How To Tell It’s The Right Relationship: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

Apr 17, 2026 30m Transcript

If you’ve ever questioned whether a relationship is “right” you’re not alone. In this episode, we unpack how our understanding of healthy relationships has evolved over time, and why the ones that…

S22E10: Regaining Self-Trust In Dating

Apr 14, 2026 55m Transcript

In a world full of opinions, algorithms, and endless advice, learning to trust yourself has never been harder—or more important. In this episode, we unpack how modern dating and decision-making have…

How Not To Choose The Wrong Partner: What We Learned The Hard Way (So You Don't Have To)

Apr 10, 2026 20m Transcript

If you’re like 46% of our audience, you may be afraid of choosing the wrong partner—and that fear can keep you stuck overthinking every decision or holding onto something that doesn’t feel right. In…

S22E9: How To Spot A Narcissist (And Not Give Them Your Time & Attention) w/ Dr. Alina Kastner

Apr 07, 2026 51m Transcript

Whether you’ve questioned if someone in your life might be a narcissist or just want to better understand toxic relationship patterns, we’re breaking down what narcissism really looks like and how to…

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