Raising His Kids
Toni Graham
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Co-parenting is hard, being a mum is hard, and being a stepmother is one of the most challenging and rewarding roles a woman can take on—but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Welcome to Raising His Kids, the podcast dedicated to all mothers in blended families, hosted by Toni, a stepmum and bio mum.
As someone who experiences blended family life from both sides—as a biological mum and a stepmum—Toni offers a unique perspective on the complexities of this roller coaster. A domestic violence survivor who’s faced the chaos firsthand, she shares raw, honest, and relatable insights into the challenges of navigating relationships with high-conflict exes, blending families, and finding balance in the midst of it all.
Each week, you’ll find practical advice, real-life stories, and a supportive community that understands the highs and lows of Raising His Kids—whether that be as the bio mum or the stepmum. Toni isn’t afraid to talk about the hard stuff—because she’s lived it—and she’s passionate about empowering biological mothers and stepmothers alike to thrive and find security in their roles within the children’s lives.
Whether you’re new to this life or a seasoned co-parenting mum or stepmum, grab your coffee or wine and join Toni for candid conversations about what it means to embrace blended family chaos with grace and humour.
Subscribe now to Raising His Kids on your favourite podcast app, and if you love what you hear, leave a five-star review. Let’s tackle this blended family roller coaster together!
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They “Got Along” So What Went Wrong?!
This episode is a heavier one.We’re talking about the Carnival Horizon case involving a blended family, step-siblings, and a situation that ended in the worst possible way.But this isn’t about the…
The Blended Bond
If communication in your blended family has ever felt hard, tense, or like it keeps going in circles, this one is for you.In this episode, I’m joined by Ashley, founder of Blended Bond, and we’re…
The Things We Wish We Could Say to Each Other
In this episode, Toni is joined by Lauren as they dive into what stepmums wish they could say to bio mums — and what bio mums wish they could say to stepmums. They read comments from recent posts,…
New Year, Same Chaos, Choosing Goals Over Resolutions
In this episode, I sit down with Jyl Barlow to talk honestly about the new year — and why neither of us believe in resolutions. Instead, we dive into the goals, intentions, and hopes we’re carrying…
A Merry Little Ex-Mas!
Christmas in a blended family rarely looks like the movies.In this episode, Toni and Jyl talk about how Christmas traditions change after separation and how expectations often need to shift once…
AITA or Just in a Blended Family
Lauren is back and we’re diving into your AITA submissions and anonymous stepmum stories — and yes, the chaos absolutely delivered this week. Between the petty, the justified, the unhinged, and the…
Unforgettable
In this episode, Toni sits down with Jyl to talk about how Unforgettable mirrors so many real-life blended family dynamics — from those awkward mood-killing moments, to the pressure of perfection, to…
Grieving the Family You Thought You Would Have
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses pregnancy and infant loss. Please listen with care and take a break if you need to. 💗In this episode, I’m joined by my beautiful friend Bekks for an open and…
Back to School with a Recovered School Mom
It’s back to school in the U.S. and the end of spring break here in Australia — which means chaos for parents everywhere. This week, Toni and Jyl dive into what it really looks like to reset the…
The Homework House
In this week’s episode, I sit down with one of the podcast’s long-time listeners to talk about what it really feels like to be the homework house — the stable, consistent home that carries the weight…
The Collaborative Co-Parent
Co-parenting isn’t always smooth sailing — especially when you’re navigating high-conflict dynamics, new partners, and kids caught in the middle. In this episode, I sit down with Gabriella Pomare —…
The Anxious Stepmom
Ever feel like you're doing all the things — but still questioning if you're doing any of it right?In this episode, I chat with Michaela, a fellow stepmum and clinical psychologist — you might know…
Courtroom Chaos, Custody Opinions & Conversations We Didn’t Plan - Part 2
We pick things back up with more messy custody stories, emotionally charged depositions, school chaos — and plenty of the stuff no one talks about (or plans to talk about) when it comes to court in a…
Courtroom Chaos, Custody Opinions & Conversations We Didn’t Plan — Part 1
In this episode, I’m joined by Kassandra and Kelsee — and while we set out to share our court stories and experiences with custody agreements… let’s just say, we take the scenic route getting there…
When Sick Kids and Co-Parenting Collide
What is it about sick kids that brings out the worst in co-parenting dynamics? In this episode, Jyl and I unpack the passive-aggressive texts, the missing thermometers at 2am, the drama over doctor…
Step by Step, You Will Find Your Place
In this deeply honest episode, I sit down with Alex Willumsen — the voice behind Step by Step Brighton — a UK-based stepmum who supports women navigating stepfamily life, particularly those who are…
Healing Stepmom Burnout
In this episode of Raising His Kids, Toni is joined by Veronica Grace Andrews—stepmum of over 15 years, former stepmum support group facilitator, and author of You Can Heal Stepmom Burnout.We talk…
When a Karen & Regina Became Friends
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions about domestic abuse and high-conflict relationships. Please take care while listening.Ever wondered what would happen if a Karen and a Regina…
Supporting Kids Living Between Two Homes with Summer Butler
In this episode of Raising His Kids, I’m joined by Summer Butler—author, speaker, and family coach—who’s dedicated her life to supporting kids and families navigating the blended family roller…
The Survivor Center with Vickie Lynn
What does healing look like when you're still stuck co-parenting with your abuser? In this raw and honest conversation, Toni sits down with Vickie Lynn — survivor, coach, and fierce advocate for mums…
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Raising His Kids has published 149 episodes since December 2022, covering topics in Education, Kids & Family.
Raising His Kids is currently declining with new episodes weekly. Average episode length is 44m.
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