Untamed Ember
Dr. Misty Gibson
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S2E2 Stop Making Rules, Start Making Agreements
Rules and agreements sound like the same thing in ENM. They are not. In this episode, Dr. Misty breaks down one of the most common and underexamined dynamics in ethical non-monogamy: what actually…
S2E1 You Didn't Choose This: Compulsory Monogamy as Conditioning
Most of us never actually chose monogamy. We inherited it. And the guilt, shame, and hypervigilance that show up when we question it aren't signs that something is wrong with us. They're signs that…
S2E1 Why Untamed Ember is Evolving: Co-Hosting, Shared Power, and What Season 2 Means for You
What does it look like when a podcast about shared power actually practices what it teaches? In this Season 2 premiere, Dr. Misty announces a major evolution: Untamed Ember is now co-hosted with…
S1E37 Privacy vs Withholding in Non-Monogamy, The Difference That Stops Fights
In non-monogamous relationships, many conflicts are not about jealousy or trust, they are about information. What needs to be shared, what should remain private, and how people get stuck oscillating…
S1E36 Polyamory Does NOT Excuse Poor Behavior
Here's a radical idea: being polyamorous doesn't make you a better person. In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty calls out the weaponized poly discourse that's been laundering bad behavior…
S1E35 Power Exchange vs. Power Over: Ethical Dominance Without Coercion
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for more deep dives. Power exchange is sexy when it’s chosen. Power over is toxic when it’s stolen. In this episode, we talk about the difference between…
S1E34 Top Drop, Sub Drop, and the Neurochemistry of “After”
If you like this episode, check out my mini-course on Drop at https://untamedember.com Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You’ve heard of sub drop — the crash after…
S1E33 Switching Roles, Staying Safe: Consent for Switches
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Switches get a bad rap as “indecisive” — but the truth is, switching between roles is a skill, and it comes with unique consent challenges.…
S1E32 CNC Without Confusion: Ethics, Capacity, and Clear Off-Ramps
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for deep dives. Consensual non-consent (CNC) is one of the edgiest and most misunderstood areas of kink. Done well, it’s cathartic and erotic. Done poorly,…
S1E31 Enthusiastic Consent When Words Are Hard
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. “Enthusiastic consent” sounds great — but what if your body doesn’t do loud, verbal yeses? For neurodivergent folks, trauma…
S1E30 SSC, RACK, and PRICK/SSICK: Consent Frameworks for Nervous-System Safety
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink. If you’ve been in kink spaces,…
S1E29 ADHD Meds & Sex: When Focus Comes at a Cost
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. ADHD meds can be a lifesaver for focus, productivity, and stability — but no one tells you what they might do to your sex life.…
S1E28 When Your Body Checks Out During Sex (Dissociation, Trauma, and Safety)
Join my newsletter at untamedember.kit.com for weekly deep dives. You want to feel connected, but suddenly you’re gone — body present, mind floating near the ceiling tiles. Dissociation during sex…
S1E27 Kink, Neurodivergence, & Safety: Why Structure Feels Sexy to Your Brain
Ever wondered why detailed negotiation, safe words, and scene structure don’t kill the vibe in kink—they actually make it hotter? For neurodivergent and trauma-impacted folks, clear boundaries and…
S1E26 The Sacred Art of Bailing: How to Quit Sh*t That Hurts Your Nervous System
Ever sat in your car outside an event, heart racing, stomach in knots, every cell in your body screaming don’t go in, but guilt dragged you anyway? In this episode, Dr. Misty dismantles the toxic…
S1E25 Touch Starved: When Our Bodies Don’t Want the Same Thing
What happens when your body aches for more touch than your partner, friend, or family can give—or when you crave space while someone else longs to connect? In this radically honest episode of Untamed…
S1E24 Time Warp: How ADHD Messes with Waiting, Talking, and Everything In Between
Is waiting agony for you? Do you feel anxious when a conversation goes quiet, or does time vanish when you’re hyperfocused? In this episode of Untamed Ember, Dr. Misty unpacks how ADHD and…
S1E23 Ghosts in the Bedroom: How Inherited Shame Lives in Your Fascia (Introducing SOFT)
Subscribe to the Untamed Ember newsletter for free resources, weekly insights, and more SOFT practices: untamedember.kit.com. Are you haunted by old stories in your sex life—shutdowns, freeze…
S1E22 Parts Work for Perverts: When Your Inner Critic Shows Up in Bed
Grab your FREE content and weekly shame-smashing resources at untamedember.kit.com — where every part of you belongs. — Ever notice that right when things get steamy, your brain turns into a Twitter…
S1E21 Your Vagus Nerve is Cockblocking You: How to Hack Your Sexual Nervous System
Get weekly, radical resources and bonus episodes free at untamedember.kit.com — Your pleasure deserves better. — Ever wondered why your brain is a full “hell yes” but your body suddenly ghosts the…
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